So, I don't really drink.* (But I am very into dance music).

(Also, due to an Earthquake, the entire CBD of my city is closed, no clubs left, there are a couple of pubs).

So on a friday or saturday night, I often don't feel that enthused about 'going out'. I'd rather stay at home and try make some music, etc. (Of course I will go out if there's some spectacular event on).

Basically my hesitation is to do with not really liking the dynamics of drinking, it often seems silly and whimsical. Also - the kind of girl I really want to get would be similar to me in drinking habits. (As a tangent... what do you think about 'doing up' a girl... ie she's pretty hot and interesting, but has some habits you don't like, do you think that she'll change with your influence? - I'd say yes, and that the opposite is not true (it's not a good idea for a girl to go out with a guy with the hope that he'll improve)).

Are there any other sedditers the same?

Just wondering what peoples general feeling here is. Of course there are other ways to meet people.

  • My default mode for drinking is to not drink. The contexts in which I would drink are, have got comfortable with a girl, and having some one on one time, have a few wines, get flirty (no need to worry about some other guy coming along). Or in the context of a classy dinner party. Or I do enjoy some daytime drinking during summer.