So, to give a brief back story.

I am in my mid 20's,

I have been single since high school

I am overweight but not obese by any means plus i'm 6'4

I have a decent job, in which i talk to strangers often with authority and confidence

I keep great eye contact and do not fear it

I have only had sex once, and since high school I can count the amount of women ive kissed on my hands.

I'm on several dating sites, dating apps, and put effort into my messages and cant even get a "im not interested" message.

Though i cant talk for shit to random girls near my age of which im attracted to, i just cant do it... I'm not socially awkward but I do have my fair share of anxiety problems. I am really unsure of how to fix what ever is wrong with me currently thats making me unapproachable and damn near avoidable... So i thought i'd throw this out there and see if anyone based off my little info has any ideas.