(If my flair is wrong let me know) I recently got a girlfriend and I'm really happy with her. This is a short post as I only have one but major advice for all of you trying to find someone for a long term commitment. Although my advice would probably help to connect with women you are only interested in a short term but I don't recommend it in that situation as you can give a girl a wrong impression of what you are looking for.

The advice is to be open, honest and don't hide your emotions whatever they may be.

That's my advice, you can keep reading if you are interested in my experience with my current gf:

Our first date started a bit awkward but I guess that's normal, at least for me, but once we relaxed a bit we clicked quite quickly. I was being very honest and upfront with her about everything (I am usually like this with everyone) and that made her feel at ease and she had no problem opening up with me. She felt so secure with me that she even told me some of her worst childhood trauma that she didn't tell to almost anyone. Later she told me that that's because she never felt so good with anyone before and that she was overwhelmed by that feeling (in a good way). Our other dates followed the same open and honest vibe and I really believe that is the main reason why we clicked so well on so many levels.

In my experience, girls really appreciate open and honest guys as most guys are often closed and seem like they are hiding something (not my observation but the observation of the girls I talked to). Girls find it refreshing to find an open and honest guy. I've found my love and I hope you find yours. Good luck! 😊