Seduction in real life

TL;DR: Being present in your day is much more important and much more beneficial to you than what you are thinking of going to do.

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Today I made progress....

= I recently got an chrome extension that displays the time and everyday it asks "What's your main focus for today?".

= It's great cause it makes me more conscious of my day. Of how I spend my hours. And of what i need to accomplish TODAY. Not tommorrow. Not next week. Today. Now.

= I am now more aware and more productive because I am present and actually doing something rather than thinking of what I might do and what the consequences will be and worrying about that, and then I start to think about how I should prepare for those consequences and the cost of each contingency plan... you get the picture

= What if I just talked to her and she fell in love with my charm and wit and my oh-so-sexy-humour and she invited me to her place....what will I pack, should I bring the sleeping bag or just a duvet, what if she'll want to get in with me then,.... ooooh and I need to buy some condoms. and a sex toy. Yeah I should bring here a strap on. You know Cosmo says girrls looove an sexually adventurous man.........but will be that too much. She's jewish you know. Actually lemmi google this real quick. hw opn ar jewish girls to sex?

Long story short, you end up with some really weird googles that could some back to haunt you.

= Instead, Be here and do something.

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I have to say /r/seduction has given me the most unique transformation of self. Damn Kendrick just hopped on the second part of Swimming Pools. I love it. The verses are so raw. I started applying the principles of /r/seduction in my daily life and things around me are changing. Some times it's good, some times it's bad. but things are changing. And more importantly, I am changing.

= Now trust there were a lot of 'principles' to apply after reading /r/seduction for MONTHS. all time best... best this year. best this month.. Constantly reading the sub and feeling like I have improved and then going to sleep. Now don't get me wrong, theory is important. It is part of improving the mind. But without practising the principles you read about, it's a skeleton without flesh. Unable to take form and act on the world around them.

= Constantly improve yourself. Invest in yourself, you'll attract the people like you. The underbelly of every good seddit post is that you should be true to yourself. Ultimately, your style is king. I decided it was time to pack up and leave my little shelter in Sector X2 seddit archives in search of my style.

= So I slowly stopped reading the sub. and looking for advice for all the things going on in my life. Instead, I make decisions based on what I know and more importantly what I agree with. Making a decision and sticking with it is far better than endlessly weighing outcomes. The best outcome is an outcome. I may get a positive outcome. I may get a negative outcome. In hindsight, it's easy to criticize myself and think about what I should have said/ done. But if I make a decision that I know was based on my best judgement at the time, then I am confident in my actions. What I did was good because that is what I wanted to do. It may not be the greatest thing I could have done and it's not the worst thing I have ever done but I am taking the best course of action irrespective of the outcome.

= With people around me, or girls I just met. And I am straight with them. and tell them exactly how I feel about what they are saying. And I see results. People are more real, they show me more emotion because I allow myself to be vulnerable with them and they in turn allow themselves to be vulnerable to me. I like something, then I say and act like I like it. I don't like something then I don't like it and I don't act like I like it. Because it is me.

= This is the most important thing I picked up from seddit. As long as I am always true to me then it's okay. Everything that I do is because I am present and I acted in a way that I truly wanted and I accepted the consequences of my actions. It's the difference between thinking "At the time that is what happened" vs "at the time this is what I did, and this is why I did it"

= All the contributions made to this in sub always inspired me and I wanted to give back to this great community. Thanks.