I know this subreddit has a negative view of online dating, but I use it almost exclusively to get dates. I don't have any trouble packing my schedule with women who want to grab drinks, but they keep turning out to want to date seriously rather than hook up and see what happens. So I'm trying to figure out am I simply selecting the wrong people to meet up with or is my seduction game lacking? What can I look out for to be more sure that they are more open to hooking up on the first or second date (either from the app or initial meeting)?

And just a little background: My matches tend to be in an older crowd 30-35 with professional jobs. Many of them do propose or accept my offers of second dates so I'm not turning them off completely.