On sexual escalation...

Night-watcher · 2014-05-19T02:02:01+00:00

TL;DW

Inner game

Don't be afraid of failure. It only makes you better. There are tons of girls.
Assume attraction. Assume sex. Become delusional. Nothing bad happens even if you are delusional.
Don't know how to be smooth? Be in that moment. get in touch with your senses.

Outer game

Escalation ladder. Further from the boobs and v, the girls are more comfortable. hand, elbow, shoulder, upper back, bottom back, hair, neck, boobs, v.
You can follow the ladder, or be bally and skip it, but it involves more risk
Reserve comfort level with everybody; Escalate without being creepy: Do touch all the time, but don't do it for too long.(low investment touch) be the touchy feely guy.
touch when the positive emotion is rolling. (she is laughing, etc)
Get her to invest. If she invest, reward her by escalating. If she does something bad, punish her.
but remember that punish is not the point of escalation. After punishment, give her something small to work with.
statement of intent. "oh my god, you don't even know what I'm going to right now. I'm going to kiss you."
For LMR, just talk dirty. until she says "do you have condom?"
sexual eye contact. look her left eye. You need to have 'I want that emotion.' in your eye contact.
You can get more sexual tension by getting your tonality low. (bed room talk). Make everything smoother.
If she gets tense or freak out, just back off.
In the club scene, get close to her to talk to her. not just lean in.
Get her to be in submissive frame. guide her arms to be above her head. but, don't force it up there.
38:00 Look at the ass technique around
grab hair technique
40:00 Cause you are wet routine, to see if she is ready to have sex.
41:30 How do you know if you can kiss a girl? if you can hold face to face close for more than 10 seconds, just go for it.
42:30 if she turns her head during the kiss, just kiss her neck (risky)
43:30 On the dance floor, if you can touch forehead to forehead and dance, then you can go for kiss.

JF803 · 2014-05-19T04:03:17+00:00

The 21 Convention stuff is gold. Check out James Marshall too. He's by far my favorite and covers everything

Jurassic_Shart · 2014-05-19T10:55:58+00:00

He's like the PUA version of Dane Cook.

Title	On sexual escalation...
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Date	May 18, 2014 8:35 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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