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17

Are you on the spectrum?
/r/TheRedPill21/07/26 04:24 PM
-12

I mean to be fair Brad Pitt was apparently abusive to the point his kids don’t even associate with him or use his name anymore
/r/TheRedPill15/08/24 01:03 PM
1

Go change your diaper pussy
/r/TheRedPill14/04/24 09:11 PM
1

You kinda sound like a bitch I’m not surprised
/r/TheRedPill14/04/24 07:34 PM
4

A useful and original post with some thought behind it? What is this madness
/r/TheRedPill14/03/24 01:44 PM
2

You’re a 10 in my heart, Rox. Does what matter?
/r/TheRedPill30/09/23 12:24 PM
86

Everybody wants a 10 til you live with one and you see how vapid, boring, and high maintenance their whole existence is. Most I’ve spent time with are the most impractical people you’ll come across. Sleep til noon. Wake up bitchy and hungry. Take two hours to get ready, get hangry they haven’t eaten yet. Refuse any solution to the problem at hand and just share their misery with you. Most I’ve spent time with are minor alcoholics and low sex drive/boring in bed and have a disproportionate amount…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/23 02:09 AM
4

No 30 year old uses that many emojis
/r/TheRedPill18/09/23 04:04 AM
10

Pretty much every girl I’ve ever spent an extended amount of time with takes care of me. Cooks, cleans, does laundry, dishes, goes out of their way to make me feel good and cared for, thoughtful gifts, etc. I do shit for them too. It’s how the world works.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/23 02:50 PM
7

Sounds to me like she was waiting for you to pull the trigger multiple times and you did not. I’m also tired as hell and when you said you were in the middle seat I read it as Middle East and that was a funny visual.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/23 04:47 AM
6

So is hormone optimization which can be somewhat controlled
/r/TheRedPill30/04/23 10:13 PM
67

Depends on how they take care of themselves. Plenty of dudes in their late 20s look like shit and balding with beer guts. I know plenty of fine ass girls in their late 20s. Take care of yourself and you’ll age well. Dudes on the sedentary video game and IPA life will age just as badly as women on the adderall, coffee, and plan B breakfast plan.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/23 01:58 PM
1

It’s not that deep mate. If you have insecurities learn how to get over them or they will manifest. You say treat the symptom I say treat the cause. We’re just different
/r/TheRedPill08/04/23 05:06 PM
2

Hair transplants are literally treating the symptom not the root (ha) of the problem - the insecurity - which is always worth dealing with because it’s gonna transcend all areas of life. Even if the hair transplants are permanent there’s still that little nagging feeling of “damn if I didn’t have these she wouldn’t be here” every time he’s with a girl. Not dealing with insecurities because it’s “hard” is about as bitch made as it gets
/r/TheRedPill08/04/23 04:57 PM
1

You completely missed the point
/r/TheRedPill08/04/23 04:46 PM
5

As long as you have the transplants you’re going to have imposter syndrome. You have to learn to be confident with the fact you have no hair or you’re always going to feel like a fraud the same way a dude who’s short and wears lifts in his shoes will because that is your MAIN insecurity. It won’t matter what job you get or how accomplished you are or how jacked you get (those things will HELP) but you’ll still have that lingering thought in the back of your head “would she like me if she knew th…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/23 10:42 PM
10

You took a girl on a date to a club? Sweet summer child
/r/seduction14/10/22 08:31 PM
3

The book Think and Grow Rich is basically a corollary to it as well
/r/TheRedPill02/10/22 02:17 PM
1

Just trying to offer a helpful reframe. Sometimes it’s better not to deconstruct things - leads to analysis paralysis, more anxiety etc. You’re all good mate, thanks for apologizing
/r/seduction15/09/22 11:56 PM
1

Okay so you either succumb to your social anxiety in which case any advice you get on a seduction sub Reddit is useless and you shouldn’t be here OR you figure out that you can navigate your anxiety and take action in spite of it and part of it is changing perception and having a good attitude. This isn’t the place to complain and talk about why you can’t do something. Save that for therapy.
/r/seduction13/09/22 07:51 PM
1

If looks are all that matters and you don’t think you have them then why the fuck are you even here? Attitudes and behaviors for attracting women can be learned, confidence can be learned. Which brings me back to the original point - videos and different view points can help with these things. Take your negative mentality somewhere else
/r/seduction08/09/22 11:44 PM
1

Okay? You can’t do much about how you look outside working out, being well groomed and dressing well. Social skills, confidence, the way you think about the world and intersexual dynamics, and the actions you take (which is the whole point of this sub) are dynamic qualities that can be learned.
/r/seduction08/09/22 11:35 PM
0

A lot of success with women is adopting a philosophy and changing the way you think about yourself. For some guys hours of reinforcement from lots of different sources is going to help a lot more than a few paragraphs on Reddit. No harm in recommending them, maybe someone watches one and has a useful paradigm shift.
/r/seduction08/09/22 11:29 PM
8

Yeaaaa this one is probably best left as a fantasy. If you feel open enough to, talk to your wife about it. Might help get it out of your system in a different way.
/r/seduction07/09/22 04:13 PM
3

I wish you well mate
/r/seduction06/09/22 10:13 PM
8

This post is complete attention seeking behavior. It’s low quality and pointless.
/r/seduction06/09/22 10:03 PM
5

I wouldn’t do anything. There’s nothing to do. Don’t hang out with them or give them any time or attention beyond work. It’s pretty straight forward and simple.
/r/seduction06/09/22 09:46 PM
26

Just… don’t? What the fuck is this post
/r/seduction06/09/22 09:35 PM
1

Counterpoint - it’s not complex at all. Man up and take some action, they are just girls. If your biggest problem in life is you’re scared to talk to a girl you are living a great and easy life
/r/seduction02/09/22 01:44 PM
3

I have never once asked a girl for her Instagram upon meeting it’s like you’re blowing yourself out thinking you don’t deserve her number.
/r/seduction01/09/22 02:13 PM
2

He’s all real no BS plus Aussie accent is cool
/r/seduction30/08/22 10:32 PM
1

Send me a chat or DM
/r/seduction29/08/22 02:53 AM
1

Depends on what’s wrong
/r/seduction29/08/22 02:49 AM
1

If you don’t feel like you deserve it then it’s not going to happen. You have to work on yourself enough to be the type of man you feel like deserves something good. You don’t believe in yourself, how can you expect anybody else to? Maybe that means you’ve got some work to do - okay that’s fine. Identify what those things are and fix them. Think of how you want to project yourself and the things that person would do. You might fake it for a bit but eventually you’ll become what you want to be
/r/seduction29/08/22 02:05 AM
1

Jesus this is an old comment how did you find this? But yea man when I was in college I’d always walk in, find a girl I thought was pretty and sit near her. You make eye contact and smile, strike up a convo somehow - I’d usually make a comment about something situational like the class or someone’s outfit or something funny, whatever pops into your head. College is a great place where an excuse to hang out is to “go study” maybe she’ll suggest it maybe you have to suggest something.
/r/seduction29/08/22 01:56 AM
2

Zan/James Marshall from a content standpoint is literally all any guy needs to be successful with women
/r/seduction28/08/22 04:42 PM
1

I’ve been into fitness for a while and just always found it douchey and I think it looks stupid when I see people filming shit they are clearly filming to post, but also I know guys that do it and get laid a ton. Do whatever the fuck you want
/r/seduction24/08/22 02:13 AM
16

Fragile ideals. Some people are beyond help
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 04:14 PM
3

I got a nice mustang back in college. I was like hell yeah the girls are gonna like this. I pulled just as many girls in a mini van after I got rid of that mustang. But the dudes loved the car
/r/seduction11/08/22 01:31 PM
5

This shit is really all 101 you can get from any of the top posts in this sub. Don’t waste money on these guys pushing recycled bull shit.
/r/seduction09/08/22 01:28 PM
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You’re probably not making your interactions “man to woman” and building tension/flirting. Keeping a conversation decently is good and all but how are you creating tension in your interactions, how’s your eye contact? You can be outwardly attractive and have your shit together but if you interact with women like you’re a bit ashamed of the fact that you have a cock they’ll view you as a friend which is a death sentence.
/r/seduction09/08/22 12:57 PM
2

No math has clearly definable terms. How people perceive you does not. But if you wanna be negative, do you. I’m sure you’re doing great, don’t need to hear anything from me.
/r/seduction08/08/22 10:57 PM
-1

If you think that, then you’re right
/r/seduction08/08/22 10:50 PM
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They aren’t that relevant as long as you present yourself well.
/r/seduction08/08/22 09:34 PM
54

This is a loser mentality. There are plenty of girls. Groups of girls will be more drawn to a group of attractive guys having fun than just you by yourself, or you with a less attractive dude. Even if a girl was into you, if her friend wasn’t into your friend, it wouldn’t happen. If he draws girls in then you can bring more people into your group all night - social proof for introductions of people and creating the group and fun. The better looking your friends the better for you unless you’re j…
/r/seduction08/08/22 09:33 PM
1

This is the way.
/r/seduction03/08/22 02:08 PM
1

How old are you
/r/seduction02/08/22 09:12 PM
4

A girl who’s interested will show you she’s interested and basically invite you to take the initiative. So many dumb guys flounder about having no idea a girl was interested in them to the point it’s become a stupid joke. Err on the side of being wrong about a girl being interested in you and act accordingly and see how they react. Assume attraction, take action, calibrate.
/r/seduction02/08/22 07:06 PM
5

If you don’t want to then don’t? It’s not a big deal. Keep your negativity to yourself, if you suck that’s on you but this post helps nobody with anything
/r/seduction02/08/22 03:40 PM
2

This is the most likely scenario
/r/seduction30/07/22 04:00 PM
8

I was always pretty natural but I would just take what fell into my lap. I felt like I had it figured out when I started getting the girls I was picking instead of the ones that just came to me
/r/seduction28/07/22 01:35 PM
2

Keep it simple. Plain t shirts and dark jeans/chinos. Solid color button downs. Shoes Nike Killshots or adidas Stan smiths are comfortable and versatile Make sure everything fits right, not too loose. If I’m going out I wear a black V neck and Dark jeans like 90% of the time. In the summertime it’s plain shorts above the knee and t shirt or short sleeve button down with a button undone.
/r/seduction26/07/22 10:23 PM
2

Never
/r/seduction26/07/22 02:47 AM
15

Working out will help in more ways than just how you look. You will feel better, you will carry yourself better, you will be more confident knowing you are progressing in something and can handle yourself physically. Working out should be NON NEGOTIABLE for men
/r/seduction26/07/22 12:12 AM
10

It means you assess a situation before just diving right in. Sometimes people in public aren’t really ideal for approaching ie. having a serious phone conversation, maybe their dog just died, maybe they bombed a job interview. Other times you are in line at a grocery store and a girl is standing behind you and you make an observation or comment and a conversation just happens and you hit it off. Good game is putting yourself in situations where it “just happens naturally” and not just doing it t…
/r/seduction23/07/22 04:09 AM
101

Guys who always have fun
/r/seduction20/07/22 03:32 PM
0

There’s nothing wrong with answering questions, it’s a good thing to do in fact cuz then you can qualify based on the answers, but you want to ask interesting questions about who she is as a person, not job interview style questions
/r/seduction15/07/22 12:45 AM
15

This is 101. The only thing annoying about this post is that it needs to be said to men in 2022. If you’ve read 3 posts in this sub This is superfluous bull shit
/r/TheRedPill06/07/22 09:21 PM
1

And you my friend
/r/seduction06/07/22 06:09 PM
6

I have my first on the way and I will absolutely be teaching him. The fundamentals never change. Presence, projecting intent, taking action. My dad was/is a charismatic guy, I picked up on that growing up and was pretty natural with girls but game fascinated me and took me to another level, I hope my son is open to learning and comfortable enough to talk to me about it when the time comes.
/r/seduction06/07/22 01:34 PM
0

You can and absolutely should date outside of your career… I’ve dated black girls. Plenty of my white friends have dated black girls. Why would you have such a myopic view on your own dating pool and then mass apply it to the rest of the male population?
/r/seduction26/06/22 04:34 AM
6

The way to stand out is by having a decent physique and wearing clothes that fit well. But also dress congruent to your personality. If you don’t have a decent physique - get one. It’s well worth the investment and really not that hard to look decent in a V neck
/r/seduction25/06/22 04:20 PM
2

This is all good but do not wear a suit and tie to a first date as a young man unless you wear one regularly and It just fits you exquisitely
/r/seduction15/06/22 02:28 PM
1

Just be a normal person man. I think a lot of the problems people have with game are you put yourself in club or bar environments where you don’t really know how to act even if you’re alone, let alone trying to pull a girl. Clubs are designed to be intimidating. They are probably the worst place to pull girls as a newbie but you read the Game or something and think it’s where you have to go to get girls. Probably 70% of game is just treating girls like normal people and escalation.
/r/seduction05/06/22 10:40 PM
3

You should never be calculated. You should be in the moment and calibrating to the situation as it unfolds. You sound really analytical and in your head. Taking blind action will get you further
/r/seduction05/06/22 09:03 PM
-4

About what bro
/r/seduction25/06/19 01:06 PM
16

Dude those people are being sarcastic lmao this is.. maybe the worst thing you could possibly have done
/r/seduction25/06/19 12:59 PM
31

My man
/r/seduction24/06/19 10:00 AM
1

Target near a college campus
/r/seduction23/06/19 03:49 PM
2

At 2 hours in they’re probably invested in the movie crazy as that sounds. With most girls if we’re watching a movie we’ll start ignoring the movie like 15-30 minutes in. 2 girls I’ve been with wouldn’t let me take in anywhere during the movie and then soon as the movie was over they were ready to get down. Just depends.
/r/seduction13/06/19 01:37 PM
1

Everything about clubs is constructed to be intimidating so it’s especially hard to relax. I’ve never been much of a club guy. Just never thought it was fun
/r/seduction09/06/19 01:36 PM
2

One of my favorite questions to ask is if you were making a slow motion entrance into a movie scene, what’s the song that would be playing? Kind of opens up a few different avenues and shows you how they think of themselves
/r/seduction05/06/19 08:19 PM
1

The only reason your name will matter is if you think it does.
/r/seduction09/04/19 12:57 AM
2

Dude... so what? I’m half wondering if this is a troll. Girls love things that are “exotic” or different. I have an old man name and I pull when I want. Your name isn’t your problem.
/r/seduction08/04/19 11:48 PM
8

If your name is a dealbreaker you never had a chance at all
/r/seduction08/04/19 11:24 PM
1

Hope it works out for ya
/r/seduction29/03/19 01:44 AM
1

Okay well without context it’s kind of hard to judge this situation. I don’t know how well you know this girl or whatever but you seem to have made up your mind.
/r/seduction29/03/19 01:09 AM
1

Ok I see. That’s a bold jump. Flying is a big commitment. Girl at a bar can just walk away if she doesn’t like you. I’d try to get some buy in first and see how she’s feeling on it. If you get her bought in and saying she wishes she could see you or be around you in person or whatever then I’d throw it out there.
/r/seduction29/03/19 01:03 AM
1

If she’s going to refuse visiting you then why are you even entertaining it..?
/r/seduction28/03/19 06:37 PM
1

If you know she likes you and you guys are gonna be having sex and she’s invested, buy the ticket. If it’s some girl you barely know, no get to know girls in your area.
/r/seduction28/03/19 02:11 PM
5

For sure, but sometimes even when the timing and the vibe is right, it’s cool to have something to go to.
/r/seduction22/03/19 04:41 AM
25

I’ve used that “let’s get out of here” line successfully a few times.
/r/seduction21/03/19 06:25 PM
1

Ok u changed my mind
/r/seduction11/03/19 11:34 PM
3

First off it doesn’t sound like you want that individual person back but just the familiarity they bring. I’d keep an abundance mentality, they are your exes for a reason, go forwards not backwards.
/r/seduction10/03/19 04:21 AM
13

You have to be the one to make it happen. A girl showing interest is her doing her part, and that can be something as subtle as just making eye contact and smiling. I had a girl I sat next to in a math class and our only exchange was about how bad I was at math, then one day she asked me to “help her study” and got my number. I was like wtf why would she want my help I suck at math. 15 minutes into study sesh were dipping out to hook up. If girls are blatantly telling you that you’re attractive …
/r/seduction22/02/19 07:28 PM
9

Hahahaha I’m dying
/r/seduction21/02/19 01:26 AM
1

Sounds like she’s trying to fuck, if that’s all she’s looking for talking about dates is gonna turn her off. I’ve found with younger girls it’s easier to be direct, middle aged girls working full time will want a date even if they just want to fuck because they want to unwind with a drink and so on beforehand. 18 year old girl is horny and curious. I’d be direct and keep it light and casual. Do notttt catch feelings for this girl first
/r/seduction05/02/19 03:17 PM
1

Watch a bunch of stand up and listen to comedians who have podcasts. There’s a million of them
/r/seduction27/01/19 04:39 PM
1

Hard to believe someone dick rides Todd that hard to randomly post snippets of his talks so consistently, I don’t have a problem with it I love RSD, just seems like a guerilla marketing strategy
/r/seduction25/01/19 03:17 AM
7

Are you actually Todd
/r/seduction24/01/19 10:25 PM
1

Best way to make progress is to just go do it. No reason you can’t practice on your own, and that is how you’ll get real results. James Marshall is good for inspiration. I actually like RSD Tyler/Owens infield stuff a lot too
/r/seduction14/01/19 06:00 PM
2

James Marshall is the man and Liam is great too. Also recommend Zan Perrion if you like their style
/r/seduction03/01/19 09:01 PM
3

http://time.com/3578387/julien-blanc-feminism-real-social-dynamics/ The funny part is his content was 1,000x better back then. Now it’s all this “transformation mastery” bull shit I can’t even listen to more than 30 seconds or take him serious bc he’s trying to act “reformed” when he was more congruent and had better content before. I stopped listening to Rsd probably a year and a half ago. The older stuff from Julien and Max is pretty decent, Luke and Madison are good, Tyler/Owen is actually my…
/r/seduction03/01/19 05:54 PM
2

To what the Julien scandal or the “never ask a fish how to catch a fish, ask a fisherman”
/r/seduction03/01/19 05:40 PM
1

Facts
/r/seduction03/01/19 12:33 PM
1

Probably meant puss haha. But yea pay and don’t act like it’s a big deal. Nothings a big deal unless you make it one - this goes for escalation as well and honestly anything in life.
/r/seduction03/01/19 12:34 AM
2

They’re doing everything they can to be more progressive ever since all the Julien stuff
/r/seduction02/01/19 11:14 PM
7

Same when I bartended I nailed every hot girl I worked with and there was never any drama. At my new job I wouldn’t dare do that or even try to hit on a girl at work.
/r/seduction31/12/18 10:17 PM
5

Dude.... everyone talks about that book. It’s how most people discovered the community. The reason it doesn’t have much traction now is because the whole concept of running routines and canned openers and all that bull shit is so outdated and based out of LA where everything is so plastic. Even in the book eventually all the girls have heard the “best friend” opener and it doesn’t work anymore. Books that you will eventually stumble on if you stay on this road: Models by Mark Manson, No More Mr …
/r/seduction30/12/18 06:48 PM
1

That, or maybe your success made you try in situations where you wouldn’t have even tried before and so now the rejections are more abundant. You’re probably more focused on the outcome now and it shows whereas back then you were just focused on having fun.
/r/seduction23/11/18 07:56 PM
2

Todd also says the best game is game where it looks like you’re not doing game at all, which is basically how you described your success with women as “just normal conversation” Seems like you’re doing pretty good, just keep it up and get better with your own style. Nothing good comes from overthinking or doing too mucb
/r/seduction23/11/18 06:10 PM
4

You’ve got wine at your place and some interesting thing/video/picture/whatever you brought up earlier that you want her to see
/r/seduction02/11/18 07:55 AM
2

Def don’t walk up right behind her and startle her. Try to come in from the side where she can see you, make a motion like you’re pulling out some headphones and then walk with her and proceed as normal, “hey caught you looking at me and figured I’d come shoot my shot, my name is jf803 where ya headed?”
/r/seduction11/10/18 12:13 AM
1

Sounds like you’ve got some issues to workout with yourself before you can really connect with someone without feeling judged or fake. I’ve been there too. Hit me up if you need to talk.
/r/seduction11/10/18 12:08 AM
2

You answered your own question. She’s not gonna approach you. After that initial look she didn’t think about you again, you have to take action or nothing happens. “He who hesitates is lost”
/r/seduction10/10/18 11:51 PM
1

Why do you want a girlfriend if you don’t like the girl as a person and you are getting consistently laid anyways. Just keep having fun until you meet a girl you actually like.
/r/seduction10/10/18 11:49 PM
12

Negging is for girls who THINK they are 10s. There are tens who are very insecure and 6s who think they are hot shit
/r/seduction10/10/18 01:44 PM
0

Yeah you take it as far as you can until she says no. I’m your scenario I would have made some comment about her apartment on the way home and how you’ll have to see about some specific thing inside. Then once you’re inside escalate. Pour some wine or anything and initiate some physical touch. She’s probably wondering why you didn’t try and is thrown off
/r/seduction09/10/18 03:01 PM
4

First things first, take her off the pedestal stat. Like.. yesterday. You will fuck it up thinking she’s all perfect because sh doesn’t even think she’s perfect and that’s pressure that nobody wants. That will help a lot. You’ll start seeing her as just a normal person that you like and can relate to. Great. So treat her like a normal person. Stop texting her and try to hang out in person. Be direct with your intent, but indirect with your words. Show her you like her with actions, try to escala…
/r/seduction25/09/18 07:53 PM
2

Lunch with a girl and her friend is about as platonic as it gets. That being said it’s not impossible but you’re probably gonna have to get another date with just her or try to ditch the friend at some point. That being said you can try to use the friend as an advantage. Engage her and get her laughing. Get her on your team, she’ll do a lot of the heavy lifting for you if you win the friend over so be fun and charm and include the friend then try and split off to another location with the girl y…
/r/seduction21/09/18 03:34 PM
-1

Whatever you do, do NOT catch feelings and make it more than casual. I understand the appeal, might be some of the best sex you ever had that you remember forever, but the ramifications are very dangerous. It’s easy for people to be like “muh don’t do it” but when it’s someone you have history with that’s always gonna be enticing. She might be looking for an out from her unhappy marriage and using you to “branch swing.” So don’t fall for her and don’t let her fall for you. If you choose to do it…
/r/seduction20/09/18 11:15 AM
1

Yea depends on their intent
/r/seduction29/08/18 11:58 AM
4

Laugh and ignore them and play it off as them being childish and that you are unfazed, or find new mates if they are specifically trying to make you look bad in front of girls, it probably means they see you as the biggest threat
/r/seduction29/08/18 11:14 AM
8

Posting about how to deal with your friends being normal dudes is beta. Laughing at yourself shows confidence and that you don’t care which = alpha. My friends and I roast each other constantly. I think you might be being over sensitive
/r/seduction29/08/18 11:07 AM
3

Make it from scratch at home
/r/seduction01/08/18 12:16 PM
1

I wouldn’t really focus on being the funny witty guy if it doesn’t come naturally to you and it definitely shouldn’t be the basis of your interaction. You don’t want to be the circus monkey there for her entertainment. If you’re coming close to crossing the line you’re doing too much. Make your interaction more “man to woman.” If a girl likes you she’ll laugh at your stupid jokes even if they aren’t funny
/r/seduction24/07/18 02:58 PM
3

I just realized you weren’t OP, if you want some advice PM me so as not to blow up this thread with something unrelated
/r/seduction24/07/18 02:37 PM
4

Jesus Christ no, in that situation the girl is ready now. That’s like talking to a kid and being like alright wanna go to the arcade? Okay go get your shoes on! And then he’s standing at the door with his shoes on and you’re like “uh what do I do now?”
/r/seduction24/07/18 02:33 PM
1

Theres this really unknown company called RSD that teaches self dev and pickup they’ve got some decent stuff too, esp if you like fight club!
/r/seduction24/07/18 02:31 PM
1

Keep this attitude and you will become successful eventually. My advice to you - don’t practice approaching. Practice taking it as far as you can.
/r/seduction24/07/18 01:44 PM
3

I always think of it as direct with your intent and actions, indirect with your words. Your actions show interest by showing up and talking, your words are playful and picking on/disqualifying. This is basic flirting. Eventually girls won’t even listen to your words they can tell your intent by your actions, this is something girls also do to us that we misconstrue as disinterest. If you approach a girl the fact that she’s still there, still holding conversation is a green light even if she seem…
/r/seduction24/07/18 01:06 PM
6

Getting laid at a bar or club is actually really hard to do so don’t get down on yourself. Try meeting girls more casually and keep having fun
/r/seduction19/05/18 01:08 PM
15

People always talk about how Elon Musk would make a great president and i just point to his exploits with women as counter evidence
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 05:20 PM
2

Great content best shit I’ve seen posted here in a while and well written.
/r/seduction05/05/18 02:53 PM
2

Exactly. Exponentially more important to cultivate that aura than worry about specific openers
/r/seduction04/05/18 07:25 PM
2

I’ve opened girls with “I saw you on tinder!” And that’s been good. Tinder has this weird effect where people like to act like they don’t use it or it’s taboo or something, I think coming right out with it could be good, it’s all about the vibe though. A weird awkward dude will make it weird and awkward. A fun dude will make it fun, it’s more about who you are than what you’re saying
/r/seduction04/05/18 05:13 PM
1

Look on your CPU not phone
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 03:19 AM
2

You focus on becoming one with your body. There's good books on it. Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle is a great one. Look at the sub not on mobile you'll find the sidebar easy that way
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 01:57 AM
1

Exactly. You're born knowing what to do and then social conditioning gets in the way. That's why meditation and lifting are so important to get in touch with your primal side
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 12:45 AM
2

Touch for any reason, play fight, talk about how you'd beat her in a fight, how you'll show her your friends as long as she doesnt embarrass you etc etc
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 12:16 AM
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Push/pull is an old school PUA method of flirting where you disqualify them and act disinterested and then pull them back in. Think of it as creating an i hate you/I love you dynamic. It works because it spikes the emotions and gives women a chance to qualify themselves to you which makes them more invested/attracted
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 09:16 PM
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Okay I get what you're saying. It's all relative. Depends on the situation and the girl. If you're giving a genuine and specific compliment I think a lot of girls would like that in a one on one setting. Club girl might not perceive that well, especially if that's how you open,but if you've built and broken some rapport and then you hit her with the sexy hips compliment that would probably go well. there's a lot of social pressure and judging and girls think they are high status for shooting dud…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 08:18 PM
1

I'm sorry I don't understand your wording
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 07:22 PM
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Social psychology says that people resonate with how they view themselves. If you compliment someone with low confidence this causes cognitive dissonance. it's easier to use a negative stimulus to spike an emotion than a compliment to just blend in and make her uncomfortable. This isn't all girls, usually club/bar girls. Compliments are better for everyday life but if you're in the club telling a girl how great her hair looks off the jump you're just another low value chode
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 04:29 PM
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This stuff is all massively important and I would never say intelligence is a bad thing, it will set you apart in career fields and make you a master of yourself, but something I've noticed with myself is the more I get bogged down in all this heavy mental exercise, especially when it comes to politics, the less social I am and the more easily annoyed by people I am. I think it's important to be able to let go and "get stupid" especially in fun party environments. Important for college guys to k…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 07:01 PM
2

Target is fantastic as well. For some reason every hot girl (actually just girls in general) that i know loves target
/r/seduction25/07/17 02:53 AM
1

This is fantastic. It reminds me of Dr Jordan Petersons self authoring program, which is all about dealing with negative emotions. I think a lot of guys will benefit from this if they take the advice
/r/seduction25/07/17 02:27 AM
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"When I call up, she gon leave, and I bet that bottom dolla she gon cheat"
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 06:53 PM
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"Bitch do you even lift????"
/r/seduction23/06/17 09:43 PM
2

Nothing wrong with that either. You can always do cold approach or make friends doing things you are interested in
/r/seduction23/06/17 07:12 PM
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Yeah man. But don't get so in your head that you're all worried about if you're crossing over into neg territory and shit, just keep it light, if you push too far you can always scale it back. Calibrate after the fact
/r/seduction23/06/17 06:43 PM
2

That's actually not weird at all, everyone loves going out and drinking and being social but bro, you can still go out and stay sober, in fact you will even better yourself more that way. I do it and I'm 23, I'm all about being productive but you still gotta let go sometimes and just have fun. You're 17, I'm sure you're a smart kid, it's fucking awesome that you're getting this shit figured out at such a young age, so just have fun. You've got the rest of your life to be all serious. Take care o…
/r/seduction23/06/17 06:39 PM
23

Flirt with everyone! Ugly girls ,pretty girls, girls that climb on rocks, cool dudes, fuck idk. Charming is something you are, not something you do
/r/seduction23/06/17 06:25 PM
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Joke around, pick on her, smile like you got somethin'. Be physical for any reason. You: "What are you doing later" Her: "just chilling maybe some homework" "Laaaaaame, who comes to college for an education?" while you give her a lil push. That's just the first dumb example that comes to mind but it's the kind of vibe you want to create in a light interaction. I'm always poking and prodding but in a fun way that makes girls say "you're SOO stupid" but smiling and pushing back against me
/r/seduction23/06/17 06:22 PM
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Your sex drive is a fantastic weapon. Start building up friendships. I'm guessing you're in high school so you are surrounded by girls in your classes and whatnot. Start chatting to them. About anything. When I was in high school everyone always did things in groups. Bowling, restaurants, hanging out watching movies, parties whatever the Fuck. As you build up friendships by just chatting to people and showing interest you will put yourself in a space to be invited to these things, which is where…
/r/seduction23/06/17 06:15 PM
2

Having a robotic, calculated strategy is never a good thing. If you decide you're going to wait 30 seconds or a minute before the interaction even starts... that's just not calibrated at all and it takes you out of the moment. Read the girl, respond to her, make her respond to you and spike her emotions. Having a preconceived plan is good for logistics (knowing you have a place to stay, a way to get home etc) but terrible for interactions.
/r/seduction23/06/17 03:36 PM
4

The way of the Superior man by David Deida is fantastic and outlined how to deal with women and the feminine spirit in general through your own masculinity
/r/TheRedPill21/05/17 09:11 PM
1

Simplicity is brilliance
/r/seduction06/05/17 03:28 PM
1

That is 100% true
/r/seduction15/03/17 01:21 PM
12

There's a video where he's talking to a kid who's first language clearly isn't Portuguese, but he's trying, and the media is laughing at the kid, and Ronaldo Fucking roasts the media for laughing at the kid saying how he's trying and doing a great job, why would they laugh at that. Great guy, great father as well. It's evident he loves his son
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 05:14 PM
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Conversation in clubs is a no-go. You wannna be high energy and self amusing. Dancing is good but only if you really enjoy it. If you find a girl and you like her, keep her in your sights but don't latch onto her, try to meet everyone and bring people together. If you do find yourself hitting it off with a girl, you've gotta try to find a way to talk to her so either lead her to the bar or outside or whatever and get her number if you can. Where I live the clubs close at 2 but the strip clubs tu…
/r/seduction14/03/17 03:21 PM
6

Also an extremely humble guy, gets ripped on a lot for being cocky but he's just ultra competitive.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 02:13 PM
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I've worked in a restaurant for 5-6 years and gotten at least 200 numbers in that time.. definitely just text her like she's any other girl you'd be setting something up with. When I first started and a girl would leave me her number I would feel all this pressure to be like situationally suave or funny and it just came off weird. Just be casual and set something up, it doesn't get any easier - she's already interested
/r/seduction12/03/17 08:51 PM
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The size of your life is the size of your problems. It's important to ask bigger questions.. not "how can I bang this chick?" But "how can I be a more dynamic and interesting person"
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 03:53 AM
6

Is it on Netflix
/r/seduction07/01/17 11:29 PM
2

I feel like that's a guys baseline for how he sees women. All the massive douchebags like tucker max have really narcissistic and neglectful mothers
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 06:08 PM
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I don't have any brothers. I think there's some truth to that. I'm probably more naturally an introvert. My sisters all have loud personalities so gatherings tend to be them all yelling over one another and me just cracking jokes on all of them. I think the fact that my sisters all look up to me gives me a really healthy view on women. I realize they aren't these perfect ethereal beings, but I still love them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 05:15 PM
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I lean towards red, except that I absolutely just love the feminine spirit however I don't pedestalize women at all, grew up with 4 sisters and a military dad who was always gone for long periods, sometimes up to a year, at a time. I have a great relationship with all my sisters and my mom and I do very well with women, in fact I am more comfortable around women than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 03:08 PM
3

Zan! I'm a huge fan I've listened to just about all the web content you have out there and I appreciate your calling men to a higher standard! Thank you and happy birthday
/r/seduction15/12/16 02:24 PM
1

Learn to ride a motorcycle
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 07:00 PM
2

I don't know anyone who wouldn't say this is rape
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/16 03:07 PM
1

Look at this guy. Thinks he's king of the trees, the treemeister.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/16 04:31 PM
1

This by definition is not masculine, if one were to describe full scale masculinity as the epitome of alpha, alpha is not try hard, it doesn't try to impress, it just is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 02:20 AM
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Alpha: Spartacus from the STARZ series. He's a leader of men, never gives in. Women fawn over him and he is clear to his purpose at all times. Beta: Ross from friends is a great example but he does manage to get laid fairly often. Toby Maguires portrayal of Peter Parker comes to mind. Schmitt and the other guy from New Girl are good alpha/beta contrasts
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 10:28 PM
1

Let me know if you find one
/r/seduction29/10/16 06:01 PM
1

If you have to ask...
/r/seduction25/10/16 03:51 PM
1

Like you say, its case by case. I get what you're saying, but i don't think you're going to get what you want from this post. I think a better way would be to propose a situation in a separate post and then have discussion/guys give feedback to what they've done in a similar situation. It seems like you're kind of looking for tactics, specific things you can do or try, which i'm down to discuss and learn/teach, but i'd recommend a situational post
/r/seduction25/10/16 03:50 PM
1

Hang in there man. Sometimes game has to go on the back burner while life happens
/r/seduction25/10/16 03:39 PM
1

Here's how i play it. Text her to set things up, or send a funny little remark every once in a while, but when she responds, don't respond to that. It's enough to keep you on the mind, but not too much to where its weird or annoying. After you're dating or hooking up regularly or whatever text whenever/whatever you want. Good luck my friend
/r/seduction25/10/16 03:38 PM
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The girls don't know Tyler and Julien are dating coaches, they think its just guys they are out with sharing some stupid secret. They also do a good job of immersing themselves in the sets (the coaches) so they don't seem to be out of place.
/r/seduction24/10/16 05:01 PM
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Keep your mind active. Read lots of books, teach yourself a new language, be as social as you possibly can. Even if its just video chatting with people online. But i don't see why you can't go out with a cast on your leg or even in a wheel chair just to keep your social skills sharp
/r/seduction24/10/16 04:58 PM
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Do you know how many guys she's giving "IOI's" to? and you're waiting days to act on it? She's forgotten she was ever interested at that point, probably been approached and hit on by tons of dudes. It's important to strike while the iron is hot. Girl's emotions waver quickly and often.
/r/seduction24/10/16 04:56 PM
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She could also have just been excited by the prospect of cheating on her boyfriend. Now that she's not with him her attraction isn't the same. Why would you want to date this girl though? She was willing to cheat on her boyfriend and will do the same with you. She wanted you to be the roguish guy who didnt count, now you're trying to be the provider/boyfriend type. You're probably showing that through your actions, and she doesn't have the same attraction
/r/seduction24/10/16 04:53 PM
2

Hell yeah it works. I've had great success with women in instances where i just honestly throw out something like "god i honestly have no idea what to say right now." Try to be the truest expression of yourself, congruence with your inner emotions and outer actions are important when interacting with women.
/r/seduction24/10/16 04:50 PM
1

Completely over thinking it. The world is your "field" if you see a girl you like, chat to her. I understand how going out to a specific destination with the intent to approach can make you more motivated to actually do it, but the major key alert here is to just try and have fun all the time and bring girls into your fun. Don't worry about percentage increases to your game skill or whatever, just be social and talk to girls.
/r/seduction24/10/16 04:48 PM
7

Definitely just take the friends with benefits route and be thankful. You can mess around with other girls and get to keep a cool friend you can hook up with
/r/seduction24/10/16 04:43 PM
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It goes both ways. Most guys are too beta and lazy to put good effort into a relationship and keep things vital. Guys get comfortable and get beer guts and lose their ambition. Girls get comfortable and get bitchy and seek validation. It takes two self actualized individuals to come together and have a successful relationship. Relationships formed out of scarcity or neediness will never be successful
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 02:28 AM
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It's pretty much never okay to act insecure with a girl, and your actions very much were. On to the next one
/r/seduction04/08/16 05:11 PM
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She's trying to see how invested you are. If you get all jealous and work d up over it (which I would not recommend) she can see she has the upper hand. Basically a shit test (no, they don't stop once you're in a relationship) agree and amplify or ignore.
/r/seduction04/08/16 03:50 PM
3

Elliot Hulse talks about this at length and explains it well.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/16 11:43 PM
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Talking' bout "we" a lot, oh you speak French now?
/r/seduction27/06/16 11:18 PM
1

RSD Madison
/r/seduction01/06/16 06:37 PM
2

That's assuming he would've went into computer science
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 08:16 PM
1

No but guys are a lot more shallow when it comes to sex. Fact. Source: am guy, have lots of anecdotal experience with myself and male/female friends to draw a contrast
/r/seduction03/05/16 08:03 PM
1

You're probably a guy too
/r/seduction03/05/16 04:17 PM
2

Hey now Chuck town is a beautiful place to live or visit. Savannah being awesome doesn't take away from That. I appreciate the history lesson though I was unaware
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 04:23 AM
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That's definitely true, it's more of a chilled out vibe. Plus you can't drink and walk around, which is what people always rave about savannah for
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 04:22 AM
3

Charleston SC is basically the same exact thing as Savannah but a bit more historic
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 04:20 PM
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Glad to see someone say this. Putting your feet up on the corner for the sake of "taking up as much space as possible" seems so try hard and fake alpha. You know what happens to people that go looking for trouble? They find it
/r/TheRedPill24/03/16 03:05 PM
1

99 percent of guys, most girls just want the attention on tinder. Otherwise you'd be fucking every girl you matched with which I'm sure is not the case
/r/seduction23/03/16 07:27 PM
1

Poetically stated my friend
/r/seduction23/03/16 02:43 PM
4

In the right context it can be funny, if you say it the same way one would say "your face is _____" also it just enforces that what you say doesn't fucking matter
/r/seduction23/03/16 02:25 PM
6

I wonder what OP was doing with his hands..
/r/seduction23/03/16 02:22 PM
5

Plenty of girls on Tinder are only there for validation or as a game when they are bored, not because they actually want to hook up.
/r/seduction23/03/16 02:18 PM
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I think it does a good job of showing that you don't have to have some master PUA voodoo tactics to take a girl home and fuck her. Things get way too over complicated here and guys tend to get lost in the details and make this whole seduction gambit way harder than it has to be
/r/seduction23/03/16 12:47 PM
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i like to go direct during the day time. I'd hit her with something like "i think youre gorgeous, i'd love to get drinks/coffee/smoothies/whatever" Imagine if you're her, in her head she's thinking "why's this guy talking to me? You did a good job with the cocky bit but you have to cut the crap eventually and come at her man-to-woman. That's when you'll get the hook you're looing for
/r/seduction02/03/16 09:18 PM
1

Did you at any point make your intentions clear? go for a number or ask her out? if not, thats where you fucked up. if she was engaging you and asking questions, you had the hook point but were too busy trying to apply some tactic to realize it.
/r/seduction02/03/16 08:40 PM
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If she's laughing and the energy is good roll with it. Agree and amplify. Don't worry about what "works" do what feels right in the situation. It's not a program where you do Action A that directly leads to outcome B. Thank god or this would be fucking boring
/r/seduction02/03/16 08:31 PM
1

No. How would you even know if you like her for more than just her looks? Odds are you're at a club or party, there's music blaring. Night game is all about your energy, self amusement, and bringing fun. What you say doesn't matter so much as your body language. If you're having fun, you just kind of have to make sense in English, and maybe go for a number, until the night gets to a point where you're moving on, then you handle logistics.
/r/seduction02/03/16 08:29 PM
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Dude you sound like a computer. Treat her like a person and be in the moment. Calibrate. She was trying to study obviously, probably not a great time to bother her. Odds are she was anxious about a test and drowned in work, I know that's the only reason I'd be an hour early to class, and that is not a good mind frame to try and connect with a girl. You're better off approaching after class, or trying to see her out at a party
/r/seduction02/03/16 08:26 PM
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This is a general break down of the "speech" I give girls after a couple times of hooking up when I wanna make it clear that we're going to be casual. "So I don't really know where you're at with all of this, but I want to, I think you're a cool sexy chick and I enjoy your company. I'm not looking for anything monogamous, but I don't see why we shouldn't enjoy one another's company in the meantime" She'll then have to think on what she wants and make a decision. This has worked for me to have ca…
/r/seduction24/02/16 01:56 PM
1

I go to Winthrop
/r/seduction24/02/16 02:34 AM
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Yeah that makes good sense. Definitely not gonna get into a relationship but if i ever get into politics i will keep that in mind... Its true though what you said about the girls not judging. When they know you are open to it and not judgmental they open up too
/r/seduction17/02/16 06:12 PM
10

Go to the bars. Most schools offer gym membership to people who are not students. That's a good way to make guy friends who will invite you out/to parties or a good in for day game with girls who workout and have friends for you to meet etc etc
/r/seduction17/02/16 05:50 PM
4

escalate naturally. Think what would come next if it was a movie or a story. Vin DiCarlo's escalation ladder is a good source as well here's a link: http://www.slideshare.net/vhie130501/16768511-vindicarloescalationladder
/r/seduction17/02/16 05:47 PM
1

Id argue that your planning was poor, as evidenced by the fact that you didn't have a seduction location to pull her back to. Well done on a kiss, a lot would consider that a huge success and it is certainly a good building block but if you were to take it a step further how would you continue?
/r/seduction03/01/16 04:27 PM
1

It's not rude for her to invite herself to stay the night? Sex is mutually beneficial, her sleeping in your bed is not
/r/seduction03/01/16 04:16 PM
3

High school is a much smaller pond, so it's easier to be impressive. Girls are also discovering their sexuality and it's much more new and exciting and they are curious. The best thing you can internalize is that girls like sex just as much as guys do but they are taught by society that they shouldn't. Your job is to make them realize it's okay and awesome to have sex and not be judged. At any stage of game boldness and pulling the trigger is key
/r/seduction30/11/15 03:36 AM
7

Charleston, SC is great if you live in southeast America
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 10:19 PM
7

I wouldn't even agree to it or talk to her. Best way to show someone you've moved on is to actually move on
/r/seduction11/11/15 02:59 AM
2

Thanks for the tip and yeah I think growing up with four older sisters I was either going to be gay or the way I am
/r/seduction10/11/15 11:55 AM
1

Well if you happen to be in or around Charlotte id be down
/r/seduction09/11/15 06:45 PM
3

You're the champ for reading all that. thank you man
/r/seduction09/11/15 05:13 AM
4

Start small
/r/seduction08/11/15 08:44 PM
6

It's just immature and not very bold.
/r/seduction07/11/15 09:12 PM
13

It's not negging but it IS needy
/r/seduction07/11/15 04:29 PM
64

Don't use snapchat to ask girls out initially. End of story.
/r/seduction07/11/15 04:27 PM
1

"I feel like we've grown apart" is one I like to use on girls I've never met from tinder but you have a history with the girl so that may be creepy
/r/seduction03/11/15 08:37 PM
1

Fucking awesome man. Great to read. Proud of you
/r/seduction27/10/15 05:57 AM
1

Coffee dates are good for talking and meeting but not much else. Odds are there are some cool spots on your campus. Bounce from coffee to one of them. While you're walking bump her and be playful. Good easy way to initiate contact. My campus has a balcony by the art building with a great view. Find something like that where you can isolate and then move things back to your place or hers.
/r/seduction15/10/15 04:46 PM
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Girls like to see you are socially calibrated and human. If you are confident with how you carry yourself and how you speak sometimes it's better not to come on so strong. OP was direct with his intentions and that's what really matters
/r/seduction15/10/15 02:42 PM
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I wouldn't think of AOS as a step by step guide. It's more like a well of knowledge you can pull bits and pieces from but honestly you are trying way too hard. You could probably have sex with this guy anytime you wanted to.
/r/seduction23/09/15 04:46 PM
1

Rule of thumb for me and my friends: "Never be her first, or her last."
/r/seduction22/09/15 02:45 PM
3

That's actually not a bad way to go about it. Girls are begging to talk about that shit, especially if they are frustrated.
/r/seduction17/09/15 02:45 AM
1

Are you 15?
/r/seduction16/09/15 07:19 PM
6

I love Aussie vernacular you guys are great
/r/seduction16/09/15 03:32 PM
4

I was 9 years old and I was at a skating rink in England. It was fun we would skate in circles and at the end of the night there was a part called "snow ball" where for one part the guys would ask the girls to skate and they would hold hands and skate a lap. I asked a much older girl - probably 12 or 13 - if she wanted to skate with me and she gave me a look like I was stupid and said "umm, no." In front of her friends. I felt so dumb and devastated and I never wanted to feel that again, so I st…
/r/seduction16/09/15 03:27 PM
1

She was wearing a sorority shirt from my school so I guessed she was at least 18 but nope
/r/seduction11/09/15 12:26 AM
2

Kind of hard to tell. I walked up to a girl who i thought was super hot, told her I found her gorgeous and had to come talk to her, she acts like she's never been hit on and tells me she's 16. I apologize and tell her she's got a bright future and walk off, no big deal. Just ask.
/r/seduction10/09/15 09:51 PM
6

Noooo don't force anything. If you wanna be overt comment on her cloths or jewelry and touch that, then her. Or if you wanna be direct, which I would recommend and practice myself, touch her arm, shoulder, hip every time you make her laugh or compliment her. Get physical off the bat. Establish the tone, touch her because you want to.
/r/seduction10/09/15 09:46 PM
2

You're thinking way too much. When you are with a beautiful woman, you should want to touch her. Let it be natural. Light touches are just the buildup to further escalation. It gets things heated and sets the tone for the interaction, that it's physical.
/r/seduction10/09/15 05:58 PM
9

Why do you want a relationship so badly? You're 17. The dynamics of your life are just that. Very dynamic. They will be constantly changing as you finish up school, your friends finish up school. You know how many people I talk to still from when I was 17? None. And I'm only 21. Don't take the world so serious so young. Work on yourself, fight like hell against that depression. I've been there too man.
/r/seduction08/09/15 07:33 PM
10

And it's also good to have friends for, you know, basic human needs not related to game.
/r/seduction08/09/15 06:39 PM
85

Call me old fashioned but I prefer the Hulu and Hang out over the netflix and chill
/r/seduction03/09/15 12:48 AM
2

"I have seen you in movie. It was porno!!" Had me dying haha I go to school with a bunch of foreign people who are like this
/r/seduction31/08/15 01:59 AM
4

Plus constant exposure to Asian bodies could have something to do with your serotonin
/r/seduction26/08/15 11:49 AM
13

Julien Blanc's how to seduce a woman from open to close. I think it's called the Julien Manifesto
/r/seduction25/08/15 09:25 PM
1

Yeah it could be anything man. Sometimes people don't have their phone on them. Just give it a minute see where it goes
/r/seduction24/08/15 07:23 PM
2

Don't ask, tell or suggest.
/r/seduction24/08/15 06:36 PM
4

You fuck all the girls worth fucking then leave and it doesn't matter, because you are never gonna live there again
/r/seduction24/08/15 06:15 PM
1

Well the best part is that you are aware and choosing to make a change. It's a slow often arduous process but if you stick to it you will see results
/r/seduction24/08/15 06:12 PM
1

My definition of awkward is pretending something is not awkward. Address any tension and it dissipates. HAVE FUN first and foremost. Be playful and physical, I like to pick on girls then give them a little shove/nudge to get touch going.
/r/seduction24/08/15 03:43 PM
2

You don't have to talk a lot to be cool or confident. Watch mad men and notice how Don Draper only talks when it's necessary. The best way to feel confidence is to BE confident. Accomplish things that make you feel good, be at ease with yourself. Start a daily journal where you sift through whatever issues you have with yourself until you've addressed them and feel comfortable and remember "what other people think of you is none of your business"
/r/seduction24/08/15 03:39 PM
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Day game is your friend here. See a girl you like? Cool go tell her she seems interesting/fun/pretty whatever and get her number. You probably know of a few cool spots in your home town. I used I have a cool little grove that looked out to a pond where I would take girls. Or a cool smoothie bar/restaurant/ play some soccer whatever. Do what you enjoy, but bring her into the fun. Logistics can be difficult depending on your parents. When I lived at home my room was in the back of the house and i …
/r/seduction24/08/15 03:27 PM
1

Also I have a strange and unrelated question but I'm intrigued by the blue light under the bed in the second pic. What's it come from
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 01:10 PM
1

This was great man. I like the part about keeping your core strong especially lower back, if you hurt yourself and have to sit weeks out it'll fuck up your progress. I've been there with heavy dead lifts. Another important aspect to this is stretching to avoid injury. Mainly neck and hammys
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 01:05 PM
2

Walk up to them and do the Christiano Ronaldo goal celebration where he turns, jumps, and brings his arms down like he's going super sayain
/r/seduction14/08/15 05:21 PM
1

This
/r/seduction14/08/15 04:29 PM
4

No judgement here my friend. I can recount times when I was scared to take action. Just trying to open up some eyes
/r/seduction14/08/15 01:37 PM
1

You have to make the decision that you are sick of not taking action and just do it. When I started playing basketball I couldn't use my left hand, but I just kept doing it, and I sucked for a long time, and then one day I got the hang of it. Same applies with women. Start small. Tell random girls you think they are pretty in passing, then build up to conversation, then asking out etc.
/r/seduction14/08/15 12:51 PM
2

Right? I been tryina work it out
/r/seduction14/08/15 12:47 PM
1

I had a girl with me already
/r/seduction14/08/15 12:46 PM
2

She wasn't
/r/seduction14/08/15 05:03 AM
4

I just want everybody to get all the action they possibly can/want. Now stop sleeping with crazy, I know the sex is great but it's not worth the drama
/r/seduction14/08/15 03:36 AM
16

Nothing to be afraid of man. You should try doing other things you are scared of less to get used to pushing through that feeling
/r/seduction13/08/15 11:19 PM
8

Sure man that could very well be the case. From my observation he just seemed timid, didn't want to jump in. Most college guys want to get laid
/r/seduction13/08/15 11:10 PM
1

Bruh I lost my shit. "Wasn't nothin like that first, time!"
/r/seduction13/08/15 11:08 PM
1

Had a girl with me brotha. Brought sand to the beach because my beach is better
/r/seduction13/08/15 11:02 PM
55

Sure man that could very well be the case. His bewilderment at my comment lead me to believe otherwise though, either way there's still a lesson to be learned. Thanks for an alternative view point
/r/seduction13/08/15 07:27 PM
1

Make definite plans. She' hitting YOU up, talking about making out, essentially doing the work for you all you have to do is show up
/r/seduction13/08/15 05:32 PM
2

Get in the habit of doing things out of your comfort zone. That nervous feeling you get talking to a woman you don't know will begin to dissipate if you feel that adrenaline rush often. If you're scared of heights go on roller coasters etc etc. Also don't feel like everything has to be prefect or like you have to entertain a girl. Be forward and unapologetic. Own the fact that you have a cock, that you're going to break some social norms, and most importantly have fun and be yourself.
/r/seduction13/08/15 05:29 PM
1

Try and get a part time job. Not a lot of people in high school have one but having your own money will you make you more confident and higher status.
/r/seduction13/08/15 04:08 PM
6

Please do this. I'd love to rehash some sparty memories through a Red Lens. KILL THEM ALL
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 07:22 PM
3

This might sound trivial or nit picky, but when you first meet her hit her with a "how have you been?" it assumes familiarity and can help establish some superficial comfort from the beginning
/r/seduction01/06/15 06:36 AM
1

This might sound crazy but i've found Target is a phenomenal place for day game. I see more attractive girls at Target than at Uni, just walk up start a conversation after introducing yourself and say you'd like to get to know them better, Number, insta-date or D2 from there then repeat. Have fun with it.
/r/seduction01/06/15 06:33 AM
6

This reads like an /r/swoleacceptance post
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 02:23 PM
38

"Worry not about the fruits of your labor but rather learn to enjoy the labor and let the fruit come of its own accord" -Eckhart Tolle from The Power Of Now
/r/seduction25/04/15 02:46 PM
1

Lol I was thinking the same thing. Appreciate the artfulness and the feeling that went with it though
/r/seduction25/04/15 02:03 PM
1

Yes that's already been established, also I'm 5"9'
/r/seduction21/06/14 08:45 PM
0

No I wasn't trying to be a dick and brag, and I'm certainly not offended by your comments because I want to help. In my defense I whipped that report up quickly and felt like it would be too lengthy if I went into great detail. I will just delete and try to rewrite something of use when I have more time.
/r/seduction21/06/14 06:24 PM
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I think if anything you can take away that sometimes you don't need to use tactics or routines, just be yourself and let the woman lead the interaction if you can see she's leading it in the right direction. I could have ran the cube or some PUA bull shit and they probably would have been like "okay... Wtf?" Some people try to overthink this stuff and break it down way too far and it just complicates matters.
/r/seduction21/06/14 05:41 PM
1

I hooked up with a girl from a study group by strong eye contact and "accidental" kino during the study session, then walked her out to her car where we made out and carried on
/r/seduction21/06/14 05:56 AM
1

Right now there are four girls with whom I have casual sex, but I am about to become exclusive with 1. I had to pursue all of them. Girls are hard wired to avoid rejection at all costs so no, they typically don't chase guys. You should listen to James Marshall's speech about What Women Want. It's on YouTube and well worth the listen. As well as the book "My Secret Garden" if you don't think women crave sex and have explicit fantasies. Women have sex because they want to. They want a connection, …
/r/seduction18/06/14 12:53 AM
2

Social stigma and slut shaming, which was ultimately created by women. Women enjoy sex. Why are you asking questions and dissenting everyone's answer? If you already have a thought just express it, you don't have to passive aggressively try to get your point across.
/r/seduction18/06/14 12:15 AM
1

Not to condescend but how old are you? Teenage girls feel awkward sometimes and don't know what to do especially in public so they do dumb shit
/r/seduction12/06/14 03:47 AM
1

Julien from RSD if you need a kick in the ass, James Marshall for anything really. James is funny as hell so his stuff is easy to listen to and he's all about making real actual connections
/r/seduction12/06/14 03:34 AM
1

Crazy Stupid Love. I love taking tid bits from that movie for example "let's get outta here" when i'm ready to move things back to the house
/r/seduction05/06/14 05:47 AM
1

Which two?
/r/seduction04/06/14 04:49 AM
1

I'm not saying it's necessary. But look at any thread where someone is like "my life sucks blah blah I'm a virgin where do I start?" Nearly every time someone says "start lifting weights."
/r/seduction03/06/14 05:23 PM
1

Well really that depends on what you are trying to do. Tell someone who's never lifted before "pick up heavy shit and put it back down bro!" Are most likely going to hurt themselves.
/r/seduction03/06/14 04:30 PM
1

I would be but I'll be in hawaii for it. Post this again next year
/r/seduction01/06/14 05:47 AM
2

Julien's stuff is really good for an energetic-club game. His video on perpetually being in state is one of my favorites and he's got a good high energy vibe. It's good for just getting any kind of sex at all and not being picky. Not so great outside the party scene though
/r/seduction01/06/14 05:17 AM
2

Day game. I've been in a similar town the past year and do better picking up girls from the gym than the bars
/r/seduction28/05/14 03:43 PM
10

God damn those half Japanse girls
/r/seduction28/05/14 03:34 PM
3

The 21 Convention stuff is gold. Check out James Marshall too. He's by far my favorite and covers everything
/r/seduction19/05/14 04:03 AM
2

Not that I would recommend it, but my friend used to wear an earring so girls would question his sexuality and he would never get rejected dancing haha.
/r/seduction05/05/14 10:59 PM
2

In The Game, Neil says something along the lines of "The methods used to begin a relationship are much different than the ones used to maintain it" Game is how you get a girl to fuck you, whatever the reason may be for that varies case to case. Maybe you want a gf, maybe you just want a smash piece. If you do choose to enter a long term relationship girls want the sweet shit your time, but the trick is to remain not needy and keep it fun.
/r/seduction05/05/14 04:55 PM
1

All true but even more important well written sir. The part about looking at the floor was well worth a chuckle
/r/seduction05/05/14 02:39 PM
1

Obviously you need a little rapport built up. I used it on a girl from the gym who sees me on a daily basis but id never approached before. Started small talk then worked It into the conversation along the lines of "I was gonna go watch a meteor shower tonight, you should come with me" then I got her number and called later that night. Got some ice cream beforehand, then went and watched
/r/seduction05/05/14 04:15 AM
1

Not if you are playful about it. Find a way to work it into the conversation and then something like "let's check out this meteor shower tonight, It'll be super cool." Worked for me.
/r/seduction03/05/14 09:19 PM
2

Cards against humanity are funny and entertaining as fuck
/r/seduction03/05/14 12:49 AM
1

She doesn't know she's choosing what color you are going to wear until after she says the color. Not that I would or wouldn't do this but it's relevant to a lot of comments
/r/seduction28/04/14 06:20 PM
2

This is the best idea I've seen on seddit
/r/seduction22/04/14 02:42 PM
1

Not a problem. And not that we wouldn't help you, your needs are just better suited over there most likely.
/r/seduction20/04/14 09:42 PM
3

Shoulda wife'd the monkey to further portray dominance
/r/seduction20/04/14 08:31 PM
1

That's not much to go off, but you might wanna check out /r/fPUA
/r/seduction20/04/14 07:56 PM
1

Well aren't you special
/r/seduction20/04/14 07:52 PM
1

Julien from RSD I'm pretty sure he talked about it in his Manifesto
/r/seduction19/04/14 07:40 PM
0

No it's extremely hard to have an intellectual conversation with someone in this age group. I am also 20 and all most of my peers care about getting fucked up and where the party is tonight, but don't have the intellectual breadth to discuss worldly things; things of substance. In a society where it's deemed "cool" to "not give a fuck" it's refreshing to find people who do. I give a fuck about a lot of things, and even if they don't understand it, women admire my passion. Thank you for this post…
/r/seduction17/04/14 02:48 PM
1

No that's good being a doer is better than being a reader
/r/seduction16/04/14 06:25 PM
4

Mark Manson is the author of a book called "Models" that is held in high esteem in this subreddit.
/r/seduction16/04/14 03:02 PM
1

You know, Marilyn
/r/seduction16/04/14 12:56 PM
8

Music food and booze are for closers only
/r/seduction15/04/14 02:17 AM
2

Unless you've defined exclusive terms, which it doesn't seem like you have, I would. Girls want what other girls want
/r/seduction14/04/14 05:34 PM
2

The best thing about this girl is that there are 100 more just like her or better. Give her some time to come to you, if she doesn't it's her loss
/r/seduction14/04/14 11:55 AM
1

Looks pretty good to me except for you should have set something up.
/r/seduction08/04/14 05:30 PM
2

Well, Ricki Lake retweeted my older sister yesterday so there's that
/r/seduction05/04/14 12:58 PM
6

Passion. Find hers out, share yours. I like to ask really off the wall questions too, actually askreddit is great for conversation topics
/r/seduction05/04/14 11:45 AM
1

You are so right, good god everyone is like "how do I specifically" do this that the third it's getting to be so repetitive and annoying. Read the side bar. Look at the top rated posts of all time, then just have fun. Talking to girls is really not that difficult
/r/seduction01/04/14 12:25 AM
0

Lol
/r/seduction24/03/14 11:09 PM
1

Go on a different date before your first date. Haha just kidding, just relax. That nervousness in my mind is parallel to excitement. If an inkling of it isn't there something is not right. It's not unlike a big sporting event or job interview, and once you dive in it's gone. But the more you do it and the better you get, the more the nervousness dissipates. I personally love that nervous excitement, it reminds me of being 15 and not so jaded. Just have fun and be in the moment. You said the date…
/r/seduction23/03/14 02:00 PM
0

Where was this when I went to Clemson
/r/seduction22/03/14 04:29 PM
1

No for before the bar to give you a little bounce in your step.
/r/seduction21/03/14 10:00 PM
2

Yessir! Rigamortis is my favorite by K Dot. Or his verse on Stone Town by Eminem
/r/seduction21/03/14 05:46 PM
8

Man Of the Year by Schoolboy, anything by Kanye and Chain Smoker by Chance the Rapper. I'm assuming you just mean stuff to get you feeling energetic
/r/seduction21/03/14 05:26 PM
15

A lot of girls are boring but I appreciate the ones who can match my witty banter
/r/seduction21/03/14 02:33 PM
34

Girls with game are fun
/r/seduction21/03/14 12:54 PM
2

Go direct if shes giving IOI's. I've had success with women in the gym who show interest. If she has her headphones in, approach and hold eye contact. I do this thing where i kind of hold my head back, visibly remove my headphones, and lift my eye brows almost like i have a question. She''ll pull her headphones out and then you can go about talking. If she's got her tits out and cool shoes, she's basically peacocking and waiting for you to approach. Go get her.
/r/seduction21/03/14 12:52 PM
2

Strong move on the "just admiring" I like that
/r/seduction19/03/14 09:06 PM
1

I'm pretty sure there's an app for your phone as well called "better man" or something like that
/r/seduction19/03/14 06:07 PM
1

Look up the 30 Day Style-life Challenge
/r/seduction19/03/14 03:43 AM
1

Yeah, it makes managing expectations way easier too because you already know the deal. You've got it figured out man. Like randian said. Just gotta execute
/r/seduction15/03/14 03:45 PM
1

Fuck if I know, everything is situational. It works for me. I got it from Ryan Gosling sooo
/r/seduction15/03/14 03:32 PM
2

Say "let's get outta here" then. It doesn't give off the creepy vibe you seem nervous about, and it's almost plausible deniability because you both know what's up if you leave but haven't outright said it
/r/seduction15/03/14 03:10 PM
2

Just say "wanna get outta here?"
/r/seduction15/03/14 02:45 PM
3

I'm 20. The girl was 18. The younger, the more curious and uninhibited I think. I remember a period of time around my sophomore year of high school where girls wanted to lose their virginity to "get it over with"
/r/seduction15/03/14 06:43 AM
4

Lol my fault I'm on Mobile
/r/seduction15/03/14 03:59 AM
1

Thank you
/r/seduction15/03/14 03:58 AM
3

Good shit, kill it tonight man
/r/seduction15/03/14 03:20 AM
4

I honestly would have to be in the moment to know. Probably would have "ammended" the bet to the winner kisses the loser, or just went for It
/r/seduction15/03/14 01:15 AM
32

That comment makes me feel way cooler than it should
/r/seduction14/03/14 07:17 PM
9

Julien from RSD "no girl is ever going to be in bed, about to fuck you and then be like 'na, actually that opener was really weak"
/r/seduction12/03/14 03:31 PM
1

Na man that's a big deal approaching in front of the family. Sometimes logistics don't work like that. I can definitely relate to the stage you're at in life, it's like high school girls are just starting to seem a little too young even though you don't view yourself as that much older. Great approach, great learning experience.
/r/seduction12/03/14 03:17 PM
3

Mom looks like she wasn't too bad either. Congrats man, how'd you like her?
/r/seduction11/03/14 02:25 PM
5

I liked your perspective would love to see more of this
/r/seduction10/03/14 07:30 PM
1

Well see the thing is the cube was just to get going. We branched wayyyyyy off from that. I don't struggle socially at all, what was lacking more that feeling when you know the girl wants to kiss you. It was there earlier, then it was gone. And by the triangle thing I mean when you look from one eye to the lips to the other eye
/r/seduction08/03/14 04:36 AM
0

Alt-J, Kings of Leon, The Weekend, Arcade Fire, even some classical like Chopin is decent background noise. Music shouldn't be the main focus though
/r/seduction06/03/14 04:20 AM
1

That is essentially a Neg/Making her qualify herself. I'd hit her with some playful Negs too
/r/seduction05/03/14 02:09 PM
1

Text game is important amongst younger women, typically college types and below because they have grown up with it as a standard means of communication. This makes it easier to set yourself apart though because most people in the college demographic rely on texting, so showing that boldness of waiting to interact in person is pretty cool
/r/seduction04/03/14 07:52 PM
1

Get a well fitting black or brown leather jacket and a stylish pair of sunglasses (aviators and wayfarers are best in my opinion) It just helps you feel bad ass
/r/seduction04/03/14 05:07 PM
2

I f-closed a girl who I caught staring at the gym. Literally just walked up and told her to put her number in my phone
/r/seduction25/02/14 06:27 PM
1

I recently hooked up with a girl and it started by her favoriting like every other one of my tweets. She direct messages me, I told her to give me her number, waited a few days then texted. It drives girls in their late teens/early twenties crazy when you don't try to text them right away/very often.
/r/seduction21/02/14 02:02 PM
1

She was probably pretty embarrassed about the coffee too so i wouldn't take that too hard
/r/seduction21/01/14 06:51 PM
1

Get in with the fraternities. Seriously, do this. I go to a fairly large university (Clemson) and it's all about Greek Life. Girls are so shallow in college a large percentage only care about what letters you have on your chest. I personally am not in a frat but I'm boys with all the guys who are and that works all the same. Most universities have some sort of "crushes" twitter page. Follow that shit. Meet as many people as you can. I got in with the fraternities by playing for their intramural …
/r/seduction21/01/14 06:38 PM
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