Hey guys

So i went to a concert last night (J Cole in Charlotte, awesome show) and of course there was a plethora of attractive girls in suggestive clothing having fun dancing and being feminine. Next to me on the grassy standing area was a guy with 3 of his bros having a good time and in front of him was a girl who was CLEARLY interested in him. She would talk shit about knowing the lyrics, try to get him to dance, and put her ear close to his face to say the lyrics. It was painful to watch him not take action. Towards the end of the show i look at him and say "you know that girl is all you if you want her, right?"

He looked at me like i had just asked him the square root of pi and said "no way, man. i don't even know her"

All he had to do was take some action. Put his hands on her hips, dance, include her in the fun he was having. Ultimately, he needed to believe that he could be successful. That a girl like that could be interested in him. I don't know if i feel worse for the guy or the girl. She was putting it out there on a plate for him. So lesson of the day, gentleman, assume attraction and take action. Odds are you are more attractive than you think.

"wise men learn from their mistakes, wiser men learn from the mistakes of others"