A few questions for you seddit. My longest relationship has been 5 month, and it didn't really go too well to be honest. I can hook girls well, have my pleasure with them, but I don't know how to be a "boyfriend" so to speak.

A friend of mine advised me when asking a girl out, that (obviously) you don't just ask "hey do you want to be my girlfriend?", but instead establish a control of the relationship and make it apparent that we are dating. I don't get what he means by this.

Also, in being a boyfriend, how do I act?? My past gfs have lost interest over time, were controlling, etc. I have always felt that if you are truly into somebody, you should be willing to give them the time they want with you and do things to make them happy.. not play the game with them. Am I wrong?

Any advice is much appreciated... throw away account.

tl;dr How to begin the relationship in a dominant way, and how to act as a boyfriend to not lose her interest after a few months