Usually I would post questions in askseddit, but this seems a little more advanced. How does one embrace total acceptance of the reality in front of them? I've been trying to do this lately, but it's been sort of tough.

To give some examples with what I've been struggling with:

  1. Accepting the fact an ex cheated on you/treated you like shit/etc and having her in the same social circle and not getting just depressed at what happened? (This is a big one).

  2. Approaching when you're really out of state anyway and pushing through?

  3. Accepting that you are indeed awesome, and that everything else is a mental roadblock.

Basically I just want to accept the things I can't change, and I feel this would help with my game. I have been trying to do this regularly, but lately I have been having a harder time.