Credit goes to RockNRollPUA of the rsdnation forums

1) What is validation to a girl? Validation - Positive attention from men: Compliments, buying things, being too nice, chasing, supplication, and anything else that reinforces the reality that she is a hot girl and every guy is trying to fuck her.

2) How to take the validation away from her? + Why?

Tyler told me the simple answer to this question, he may have also said it in a video somewhere: Don't validate them, by not needing them. When a guy is needy in any way, he will validate the girl at some point. If a guy is truely non-needy, aloof, and cooler than the girl, this makes him stand out from the leigions of fags and this makes the girls want to fuck that guy because that is the only way they can be validated by a guy who doesn't need them. When you are a guy that is cool, living in abundance, doesn't chase, the girl becomes like the chode who is chasing the hot girl for sex in order to get validated. Thats why hot women love a challenge, date guys that don't do everything they ask (if the girl is lucky enough to get into a relationship with that guy), and genuinely make the girl do things to please them instead of doing things to please the girl. I underlined that because that is the key indicator of when a guy isn't giving the girl too much validation. Validation should be used as a reward when she is doing something good, and something that is taken away as a punishment for bad behavior. By controlling the girl through validation, you can make her do whatever you want her to do.

WHY? Have you ever had a girlfriend who was super into you, submissive, and wanting to please you with hot sex, cooking for you, cleaning, and basically being totally obsessed? If you were to scold her, or point out something wrong, she would be deeply affected, and if you gave her praise or did something nice for her she would be appreciative. My best friend is a natural master of this type of game. He makes every girl he dates become totally obsessed with him by using pure validation push pull the whole time consistently throughout the relationship. Even if he cheats on his girlfriends and they find out, then dumps them for a new chick, those girls will wait around and constantly be trying to get back with him to get revalidated. I live with the guy so I got to pick up on how he does this and work it in to my cold approach style, and also used it to get a few chicks hooked to my dick like crack. The reason you need to strip a girl of validation, is to become the only one who can validate her at all, and make her loyal to you.

3) What thoughts / behaviours will she have when she is devalidated?

She will chase you, become submissive to you, and most of all test the shit out of you to see if you are faking that you don't really need her. Once she knows that you are cooler than her by social proof, pre-selection, or simple solid cold approach game, she will start becoming the persuer. There is always one person higher value than the other in any interaction, the one with the lower value always chases the higher value person. As long as you can build attraction, genuanely are not seeking validation from others (especially the girl), you can get the girl to chase pretty quick.

4) What to do once she is devalidated?

Whatever the fuck you want. You are the selector, she will chase you all fucking night unless an even cooler guy comes along and eclipses you. If you want to bang her, just push pull her until you are ready to leave, pull back to her place and fuck. This is pretty much the foundation of how natural attraction works. It all ties back to validation.