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[–]DarkArtsPUA11 8 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
stop pursuing the same girls. you're spinning your wheels and wasting your time. it's simple, hit up multiple girls, see what they say. if they don't wanna go out, then you move on to other girls. do not keep going back months later only to get the same result (rejection). you set yourself up for this
[–]dondraper36 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
As I said, that was a mistake of mine to return to this girl.
[–]ortsnom 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No, you can return as many times granted you don't completely disgust her by putting her on a pedestal. You're putting her needs way above yours.
When she said she's okay meeting but with friends, this was your opportunity to say that she's ridiculous and you didn't realize she was a 14 year old. You have standards and expectations which your lady needs to meet. And if she doesn't, next girl. The solution isn't bending your needs to accommodate her.
Alternatively, other people who would be successful in this same situation would have played a little more hard to get, more mystery and not be so available. Ideally you want her in a situation where you tell her that you are planning to go here and it should imply a lot of fun, and because you think she's nice, you're inviting her to come.
Being nice to her with the hope that she'll return the favor is not going to go well for you my man.
[–]MisterBurgerFace 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
You're digging yourself into a mental hole.
People on here can only offer a hand to help you out. They won't go into the hole and carry you out. You need to take the hand being offered.
If you keep thinking like this no one is going to be able to help you at all.
[–]dondraper36 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
What kind of mental hole are you talking about?
[–]MisterBurgerFace 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Your entire way of thinking. Just look at your title for example. You've destroyed yourself before you even got to the actual body of your post.
[–]dondraper36 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I was referring to this particular situation. My idea was that it's obviously no use trying to ask out a girl that made it clear several months ago she was not interested. Of course, this is a bit unpleasant, but not a big deal. I appreciate your trying to cheer me up :)
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