oneitis.

HappyJerk · 2013-11-13T05:45:15+00:00

I'm going to be complete honest and point out that I have oneitis towards her.

Don't!!!!!! It's not going to help. It's just going to make you feel worse.

There is a ton of shit on the internet about oneitis. go read that.

ienjoyartsandcrafts · 2013-11-13T08:32:58+00:00

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GdnYedTpToA

Here ya go buddy.

TheRedditorist · 2013-11-13T06:34:04+00:00

Same thing happened to me just last week, here's what helped: Move on, act as if you never met her, It may be difficult in the beginning but just takes practice. Start opening, the worse you feel the more important that you do this - after just 1 open, you'll see that you're in the middle of the deep blue sea and fishes are all around. Lastly, its okay to feel down, but realize that the simple explaination of why the you two aren't compatible is:

You are not together

If you were compatible aand meant for each other, then you would be. Accept and move on.

surfinfan21 · 2013-11-14T03:20:21+00:00

As someone in this position many times and fighting myself like hell to not do this myself again with this new girl I have to say my trick is to keep myself busy.

Continue your routine as much as possible. The moment you start saying fuck the gym let me call her. She's busy. You know why? Because it's 4pm on a Tuesday. She's fucking working like a normal person. Oh I wonder what she's doing now. Sleeping! Because it's 2am on a Thursday night and she has work tomorrow. Go to sleep don't text her.

Wow that even helped me just thinking about it.

tekdebaley · 2013-11-13T10:07:57+00:00

RSD Julian's video has helped me a lot by watching it several times(ok a lot I admit). What else did the trick to get rid of the oneitis was sleeping like a log. I found myself sleep depraved thinking about the girl, psyching over things, being too much in my mind.I was repeating the scenario of our interactions over and over again;... and of coures over-analzing, feeling helpless and spiralng down a scarcity mentality. So I started to take really long drives to see my friends in other cities , hyking and basically tiring myself to the point of sleep deparavation. After the need of sleep was overwhelming and I started sleeping like a baby, I woke up after several nights not thinking about the girl anymore, thus making her a low priority in my mind. Hope just it doesn't come back again.I feel that it won't however.Ican really state that I'm over her. Good luck to you buddy.

slcjosh · 2013-11-13T23:25:06+00:00

go meet more women. its really that simple.

Title	oneitis.
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	11
Comments	15
Date	November 13, 2013 3:39 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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