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[–]getyourlifeplease 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Do you approach women IRL? How do you flip those interacrions into dates/hookups?
[–]Joshua107 7 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
Not that much. A few times but I always get "have you looked yourself in the mirror". So I have up after that. I feel very insecure in life.
[–]getyourlifeplease 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Ok. Well...if you have trouble being successful IRL, what makes you think online will be any better? Because remember...you have to meet them in person at some point! So if you get neg feedback in person now, online will be diff how?
Do you feel there are things you can improve on yourself?
[–]Joshua107 7 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
I am always insecure about my looks, my thinning hair, my obesity. I have started working out to know my full potential in terms of my physical strength and appearance. I have started reading self help books. I have no clue on how to interact one to one. I have trouble making close friends. I believe this is the single most important area that I need to work on. Because my confidence to interact is at 0 %. To sum up I believe that I am socially awkward and need to work on that urgently.
[–]getyourlifeplease 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Then maybe take some off trying to find a girl...and put that time and effort into YOU. Improve what you dont like about yourself, work in your social skills and communication, workout and get fit/eat healthy, do your research and watch videos on making friends and being likable. THEN...when you have improver those areas, then worry about finding a girl
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