Basically I have two different girls on Snapchat(out of state) that I’m talking to. Let’s call them Erika and Sue For Erika, she wants me to travel to where she is that to spend her birthday with her, knowing her bf isn’t going to be around on that specific day. Would that be me just being used? As for Sue, it is different:she is single and lives in a ajacent state to me. One little conversation went like this Me:I’d like to think you would never go on one of those with me(referring to a date) S:Idk whether to take that as a compliment or insult lol M:Ok. Well, would you want to go on a date with me? Lol S:Yeah sure 🙂 Continued talking for a couple days and was hit with “I’ll text you later” on Tuesday. Haven’t heard from her since My thing is whether just to drop these two people completely or go to their cities and risk the chance of being stood up? I have a bad habit of saying stuff like that ie “Hey would you like to go do x or y”, and feeling the need to go through with it.