Hello, /r/seduction.

I'm a AFM who works out, has good hygiene, a job, and confidence when it comes to talking to women. I can turn it on like a switch and become assertive and get girls interested enough to give me their number, and sometimes get a date.

I've gone through a lull and have lost a bit of that, and am working towards getting it back, but here's my biggest fear:

The fear of everyone around the girl I like KNOWING exactly what I'm doing. Sure, I'm not saying things like, "Ey girl, wan some Fuk?" but rather funny/quirky things I notice about them.

Regardless, I know it's transparent: I'm courting this girl right now, and everyone knows it!

That's what scares me.

Partially due to a crippling fear of being laughed at by the entire school cafeteria as a 3rd grader(no joke, my entire grade sang, "Catchlight22 and Sarah, kissing in a tree!").

So how do I overcome? I'm not great at sticking to my NoFap pledge, and typically give in after a week; feeling like a lack of testosterone and the ease of access to porn is what makes me complacent.

Does anyone have any tips or tricks to get over either these problems?