Been searching around the forums and a lot of guys are having problems with how to open conversations. this is copy and pasted from my book. hopefully i explain it well enough but if you have any questions then message me

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Open ended openers

Listen, listen , listen. What type of shampoo does your friend use in her hair, it looks amazing?

This is a very weird question but where did you get your (Insert piece of clothing here)…Then after she answers explain that you want to buy (Insert important women in your life here) a present.

You can generally ask any question, just don’t make it boring. One of my trademark ones is. “Okay ladies, me and my friend were having an argument, or have a 20 dollar bet…. (Insert bet here). Which one of us is correct?”

Hopefully you can see the difference between the openers I have above, and the opener I will post below.

“I’m actually very nervous, and have never approached a girl before but YOLO(you only live once), first time for everything. What’s your name? nice to meet you.(extend your hand out for a handshake).”

Both are fine yet the one that I showed just does something very interesting that I don’t want to dive into. The last one shows your intent, which can be good but also be very bad. The open ended questions don’t show intent. For all the girls knows you could be using the line as an excuse to talk to her, or you could just be trying to get her opinion on a topic.

“Excuse me ladies I just started going out and talking to women. what piece of advice would you give me”? Then, take whatever response that you get and do it on the next set. Very low pressure because you have now been instructed by a girl on what you should say to open another girl. Disclaimer, the advice that the girl gives you will most likely be bad.

This is very open ended, however I would only use this as a way to get warmed up at the beginning of the night. Don’t expect to actually stay in the set after she is done giving her piece of advice.