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Fundamentalsj2swole1/r/seduction23/11/20 04:44 AM
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Logisticsj2swole1/r/seduction15/11/20 11:17 PM
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Inner Game j2swole1/r/seduction18/11/20 05:36 AM
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Logisticsj2swole1/r/seduction15/11/20 11:25 PM
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Logisticsj2swole1/r/seduction17/11/20 04:31 AM
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agreed
/r/seduction24/11/20 02:02 AM
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the way i think about the logistics is that its impossible to get the job if you cant get the job interview first. no matter how good of a candidate you are if you cant get through the front doors of the company and get a job interview then your skills are useless. many individuals with bachelor and master degrees in america are learning this the hard way. for that reason i teach my guys that "learn to get the interview first", then work on "winning over the girl". i understand that this can be …
/r/seduction24/11/20 01:57 AM
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I appreciate this perspective. thank you for dropping a comment about the female view!
/r/seduction23/11/20 08:37 AM
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when it comes to these titles and labels, a lot of it is subjective. if i lose my virginity at 19 and most of my friends lost theirs at 16 then i am a "late bloomer". however if all my friends lost their virginity at 30 and i lost mine at 21 then i dont seem like such a "late bloomer" anymore. i would imagine that many people who pursue "pickup artistry" and "game" consider themselves late bloomers. the dissonance between where they think they should be and where they are currently as is probabl…
/r/seduction23/11/20 08:10 AM
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I hope this is a joke but if not then this is a very unfortunate situation in my opinion but I AM NOT you. so i cant speak on your behalf. the initial reaction between you and your husband was not seduction in the sense of the word. some girls may consider it "romantic" and "passionate" but it wasnt seductive. many people will comment and say that you "ruined" your life but i think that is far from the truth. you have your entire life ahead of you. i hope you continue to be a good mom and nurtur…
/r/seduction23/11/20 07:44 AM
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I would imagine that all women have different taste and scientist have even gone so far as to find evidence that it depends on the stages of the womens ovulation cycle whether she will be attracted to more "masculine" features. I however would not worry about this if i were you. there are many things that will be major determinants of the success you have with women. your beard will not be one of them
/r/seduction23/11/20 07:40 AM
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are we talking about guys or girls? if a girl is interested in you its generally obvious to know now a days. with the extreme amount of attention that the average girl gets because of social media, almost anytime a women invest any type of energy into you as opposed to flat out "ignoring" and "ghosting" you , that's a pretty good sign. it gets more difficult to know "how interested and to what magnitude of interest" the girl has in you, but generally its pretty obvious.(especially to anyone that…
/r/seduction23/11/20 07:38 AM
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Yeah if it gets to a week then just go for the YOLO and attempt it. you dont have anything to lose at that point.
/r/seduction23/11/20 07:31 AM
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I usually make it a rule of thumb not to double text, or double reply, so in this scenario i would suggest that you just be patient and wait for her to message you back(if she ever does message you back). there have been many times in the past where i thought me and the female had rapport but i was "ghosted" it happens
/r/seduction23/11/20 07:26 AM
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I am going to give you very general advice as i am always clutch for time when i answer these questions. If you are a good looking guy then generally where you will go wrong when it comes to "short term game" is saying too much. I always tell attractive guys to talk less and it will improve their chances. I would advise you to get better at nonverbal communications and Kino if you feel as if your verbal communication skills arent as strong as they should be. also it generally might be a good ide…
/r/seduction23/11/20 04:33 AM
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I am a big fan of Mystery and when i first started to learn game 7 years ago as a freshman in university i referenced him alot. once again the world has changed drastically so it is imperative that you adapt and incorporate new ideas like social media, but the foundations of what he taught when it came to "logistics and mechanics" are phenomenal
/r/seduction23/11/20 04:28 AM
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Hm as general advice all i can say is that until you have a few hundred of approaches under your belt then your probably going to be nervous to "cold approach". however this is always a hard question to answer because I generally believe that if a guy is having problems with approach anxiety then he has underlying problems that will effect him even after the initial approach. if your one of the rare guys that actually can hold a decent conversation yet your MAIN problem is the actual cold approa…
/r/seduction19/11/20 09:02 AM
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I agree its a fine balance. on one hand you do want to be sincere and genuine. but we live in a society where it is our duty and obligation to give up some of our "rights" in order for the betterment of society and our lives(this is where its not always okay to "be yourself"). like when at work or in a career. you cant completely "be yourself". however i believe this balance that we struggle to find is what makes dating FUN as opposed to miserable. its about the journey not the destination
/r/seduction18/11/20 05:46 AM
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well this is the golden question in life. too much pleasure in life and your a hedonist. not enough pleasure and you live a miserable life. its all about balance. practice and experience(past failure and successes) plays a huge part. as a person that has struggled with drugs in my life I can tell you that BALANCE makes all the difference.but i will try to give you some objective advice. girls want a man that will lead and take charge, but they dont want to be led by "force" they want to gravitat…
/r/seduction18/11/20 04:18 AM
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texting is the weakest form of communication and should only be used to logistically plan out how you two are going to meet up. if you cant meet up then use facetime or call on the phone. i want to congratulate you on your progress with the phone numbers but I will tell you now that getting phone numbers is a very subordinate goal in the overall implementation of effective game. a lot of women may give out their phone numbers just to "appease" you then never respond back. generally try to have a…
/r/seduction18/11/20 04:07 AM
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I generally dont like individuals that give the advice "just be yourself". in theory i partially agree however the confusion is "if someone is super inexperienced they generally dont know what "thereself" is. if i have never talked to a girl in my life then i dont know what type of "man" or "partner" i want to be. how do i want to show this girl love? do i want to be the distant high end provider male for her that makes 100k a year so that she can live luxurious yet im always away from her. or d…
/r/seduction18/11/20 04:05 AM
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asking for a date or asking for her number(#)? If your cold approaching then your main priority should be to get a date or "mini date". generally a cold approach will not go as far as many guys think it will because the girl will be hesitant, at the point you are just a stranger. the contact information can be obtained relatively quickly 15-20 minutes however i always tell my guys to make sure there is a PURPOSE for obtaining the number. dont just ask her because you feel like its the next thing…
/r/seduction18/11/20 03:57 AM
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We can agree to disagree. but i understand what you are saying
/r/seduction18/11/20 03:46 AM
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this makes perfect sense. I couldnt have said it any better myself. I love your mentality
/r/seduction18/11/20 03:44 AM
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oh i understand what your asking. yeah no problem
/r/seduction18/11/20 03:42 AM
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i dont understand your question?
/r/seduction18/11/20 03:40 AM
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"they are almost as beautiful as my personality"
/r/seduction17/11/20 01:16 PM
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If you freeze up with girls then you unfortunately have a long way to go my friend however i will provide you with a go to line the next time that situation comes up so your not shocked. you : "i dont want to be creepy but can i give you a compliment" her: yes you: " do you get complimented on your eyes a lot" her: she will say yes or no you: "they are very pretty" her : thank you you---- continue conversation but do not ask her on a date. from the problems that you are telling me you are not re…
/r/seduction17/11/20 01:13 PM
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" i know " " oh trust me , you wouldnt be saying that if you knew about......nevermind" " that is why we would make a perfect couple" you should be smiling as you say all of these things. cocky response but if a girl said that to you then you are pretty close to be eliminated from dating contention. humbleness wont save you , only cockiness
/r/seduction17/11/20 01:08 PM
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very general question. I would first ask you . how do you know that you aren't already being flirty? because you didn't feel so? its hard to answer with these details but I will give you the best answer I can. In general this is something that will come from much experience. being flirty isnt an "action" that you can turn on and off. its more of a mentality. Im a flirty guy but its because i like "teasing" girls. by this i mean i like to make fun of them and get on their nerves, but in a playful…
/r/seduction17/11/20 01:06 PM
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My advice would be to just send her a funny video over instagram. if she likes it and then respond you can continue the conversation. if she likes it and doesnt leave a comment you should just take that as a sign to back off. if she doesnt read it, then once again take that as a sign to back off. under no circumstances would I suggest you say "Hey whats up"?. I think on surface level that sounds like a good idea but she probably gets that from guys all the time, and its very hard to respond to t…
/r/seduction17/11/20 12:55 PM
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haha Robert greene along with malcolm gladwell are my two favorite authors. enjoy my friend
/r/seduction17/11/20 09:10 AM
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Now what do you guys think? I think your making an assumption that some of these girls on tinder actually want to "date" you instead of having a one night stand. maybe they are angry that you didn't try to have sex with them and are making them wait. im not saying this is the case, but just a thought experiment I have been on so many dates I don't get very nervous; although maybe I can appear to be nervous and I am not picking up on it? thats not a question i can answer without looking at a vide…
/r/seduction17/11/20 09:06 AM
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You said it perfectly. theres a fine balance. could go well, could go wrong. In general I always tell newbies to avoid risky and "50:50" behaviors and do what is safe and secure. while intermediate and advanced guys I believe have some leeway to do other things (negging for example) - which IMO negging is advanced not novice level
/r/seduction17/11/20 08:58 AM
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Yeah I have done it before and I encourage guys to do it every once in a while, but I want guys to do it because they want to do it. not because they feel like it will get them "brownie points", if that makes sense
/r/seduction17/11/20 08:56 AM
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Nothing wrong with that, I respect it. Just dont want guys to think thats how you MUST do it. I was at university and broke when i started game at 18. dont want that to hold back guys
/r/seduction17/11/20 08:55 AM
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I like your question. I think many people are getting confused because they are fundamentally misinterpreting my "goal". I fundamentally believe that one of the hardest things in game is to open. even harder is to open in a group. this trick that I use is so you dont get "blown out". Which girl you choose to focus on mostly after getting to know all three is dependent upon you. However i want to make it clear that approaching the "prettiest girl" in the group. often times is a risky move. as far…
/r/seduction17/11/20 08:53 AM
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Your first sentence is based on the premises that the most attractive girl in the group is always the "best" individual in the first place. the fact that you are telling me to approach the most attractive girl is already a messed up statement that assumes that she should be worthy of my attention more so than the other girls. while on the surface my methodology seems to come off as misogynist I guarantee you that after doing this for 7 years my methodologies are OPPOSITE of the conventional miso…
/r/seduction17/11/20 06:09 AM
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I feel where you are coming from but I tend the general person tends to overestimate how much of the behavior that they see from a person is actually that person and not a result of the environmental circumstances. In psychology its actually a theory modeled after this called the Fundamental Attribution error. Ironically enough we tend to do the opposite and equate our behavior a lot of time to the product of the environment. what if 5 minutes before you made the approach she realized she forgot…
/r/seduction17/11/20 06:01 AM
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I couldn't have said it better myself. I wish it didnt take me years to learn that
/r/seduction17/11/20 04:54 AM
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No problem bud. Im scared of posting this because I feel like most guys will misinterpret this as me saying "dont approach pretty girls, always go after the worst looking one". i am NOT saying that. I am mainly laying down the sociological principles of why it may not be most efficient to always approach the "hottest" girl in the group
/r/seduction17/11/20 04:53 AM
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this may end up backfiring. if the girl is shy she may not text you first. but i understand what you mean
/r/seduction17/11/20 04:11 AM
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its all situation and dependent. i would get really creative. back at university i would sometimes ask for the girls email adress because i know they would have to check it for classes
/r/seduction17/11/20 04:11 AM
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You sir are spot on and very observant. 7 years ago when I began game mystery was my biggest inspiration for learning "outer game" and Jordan Peterson was my biggest inspiration for my "inner game"
/r/seduction17/11/20 04:08 AM
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yessir. there are definitely biological underpinnings to it.
/r/seduction17/11/20 04:06 AM
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but your missing an important point. if you WIN and SUCCEED and PASS them then it ELEVATES your value. its like calling gambling stupid. its only stupid if you lose. if you hit the jackpot then you walk away with more than you put in. as a side note, most women dont do it conciously or intentionally. its just out of habit.
/r/seduction17/11/20 04:06 AM
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yeah thats why i tell people that confidence is key but also EXPERIENCE is a close second. you can be as confident as you want but if she throws something unorthodox at you then you will be surprised. being "surprised" or "stunned" as a response to a shit test it not optimal. even if you are confident without the experience, shit test can still be problematic. once a guy has enough experiences, he has generally seen all the different form of shit testing
/r/seduction17/11/20 04:04 AM
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LOL dude imma steal that name "thirst test". ive never had this exact situation happen to me but trust me ive been in dozens of situations similar to it. yessir in order to pass it just be "nonreactive".
/r/seduction17/11/20 04:03 AM
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Confidence is the most important. EXPERIENCE is a close second
/r/seduction17/11/20 04:01 AM
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Yeah i always like hearing a female perspective on some of these things. A lot of my theories I believe are fundamentally rooted in the fact that I try to help the girl and the guy BOTH have fun in the interaction. i want it to be a win win situation. a lot of guys when they first start to talk to girls are not "fun" because they cant even focus. there only focus is "manipulating the girl". i agree that sincerity is something that should be implemented. when I approach girls at the bar and the c…
/r/seduction17/11/20 03:57 AM
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dude ive never heard of this but i love it! imma give you a follow. always love when someone can teach me some new things
/r/seduction17/11/20 03:52 AM
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you mf i cant tell if your trolling me on not XD. if you have autism i recommend you avoid working on "cold approach" and start to use online dating sites and social media. you will still have to go through shit test, and learn "game" but it will be in a much more comfortable environment for you! hope that helps
/r/seduction17/11/20 03:49 AM
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Im copy and pasting this from my book. hope it helps and the format is readable. ​ A common response that you will hear many times when you approach sets of women, is “she has a boyfriend” or “we are lesbians”. Now this response could come from the original woman you approached or from her friend. These responses are so common that I decided to write a bit about how to approach these obstacles. It’s generally a good idea to have a few go to responses to these statements .Below are some of my typ…
/r/seduction15/11/20 11:03 PM
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I agree but i don't completely like the wording. similar to everything else in life there is a duality nature to game. Yin/Yang. you are correct in that most of the problems guys have is that they are pushing too hard( I mean this mentally. a lot of guys think way too much about things that dont need to be thought about, and instead they could be using that mental energy to solve logistical problems). If at any moment you are thinking "does this girl like me" then you are "mental pushing" you ar…
/r/seduction15/11/20 10:58 PM
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social media and dating apps have had a small/mediocre impact on the way females react to cold approach but I would say the answer is yes. understanding the fundamentals behind the inner game and outer game that style and mystery teach will still help you with game. this is because they are rooted in biology and psychology
/r/seduction15/11/20 10:24 PM
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this question is missing a lot of context so it is very difficult to answer. respond back to these questions and i will make sure to shoot you an answer. ​ how long have you known her and what is the context of your relationship/friendship? where was the first date and how did it go? have you kissed her? where do plan to go on the second date? those questions are just starters and still not sufficient enough to give a perfect answer but if you respond to those i will be able to help much more
/r/seduction15/11/20 10:18 PM
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as a side note. inner game should be worked on and is imperative. but it should be worked on WITH outer game. its like learning to play a piano(real example because i played as a kid). you have to read music AND learn to have the hand dexterity. yes in a rare event there may be a situation where you only work on one but the general rule should be they are worked on in synchrony
/r/seduction15/11/20 10:15 PM
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i understand where you are coming from but what concerns me is the subliminal messages i am getting from your words. it seems to me that you out of "fear" have the mentality that you dont want to mess up again and that you need to improve yourself in order for you to be "worthy" of a successful relationship where you dont chase the girl off. this is true but only partially true. there will NEVER be a perfect time. you will NEVER be the perfect guy. if you have a solid reason why you want to cut …
/r/seduction15/11/20 10:13 PM
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why do you use the term cold calling? i was always taught that cold approach is when your engaging with random girls(like at a bar or club) and warm approach/game( which is probably the best way) is when you are trying to talk to girls that are in a pre-existing social circle that you already know. if you are a highest status good looking guy i would recommend that you use dating apps in order to conserve energy and filter through nonsense, that however is only about 1-5% of guys. most guys on d…
/r/seduction15/11/20 10:06 PM
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i dont really have any weird or kinky fetishes but if i had a fetish i would say its clean feet. i like when the girls feet are really clean and the nails are painted. if they arent painted then it bothers me a little. im surprised im not raunchier because i spent endless years of my teenage life devouring pornography
/r/seduction15/11/20 10:01 PM
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I've been starting to realize like im never able to connect or network with the ppl in my fields For example im a computer coder and a kickboxer and i really love reading books. i myself am an avid UFC fan and wrestled back in high school. consider yourself my new friend In any of them i really couldn't connect with anyone for example on Twitter With girl or guy. twitter isnt really a good platform to form connections. its limited to 140 words and is actually extremely divisive Im a good listene…
/r/seduction15/11/20 09:59 PM
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the categorization of inner vs outer game is similar to the nature vs nurture debate. they are not mutually exclusive and many times actually compliment eachother. the principles of outer game are just a "performance" unless you understand the principles of inner game that allow you to pull off those tricks. vice versa having competency in a certain domain or area usually increases ones confidence about how well they can perform that task, such as you enjoy playing a sport because you know your …
/r/seduction15/11/20 09:53 PM
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I agree which is why I don't neg. many women( similar to what you did) would not be able to see it as a joke and would be offended.
/r/seduction13/08/20 02:39 AM
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You actually have a good point lol. I am 6 years into game, so sometimes I do sort of get mixed up with the basics that I learned years ago but I hope people see your response. it technically is more of a disqualification. however the concepts still hold true. I agree with the last statement. I just generally think that they are too risky. with how sensitive some women are in 2020, a simple neg is like going all in with a bad hand in poker
/r/seduction12/08/20 10:32 PM
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Love the response man and i 100% agree with everything said. especially about the inflated egos. over the next few days I will be copy and pasting excerpts from my book and see how it holds up in the community and peoples opinions on it. thanks for the response!
/r/seduction12/08/20 10:28 PM
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this is awesome man. iron sharpens iron. if i may add my opinion I would say wing mans are severely underrated in general but also what is highly underrated is approaching sets with the same number of people as you have. the amount of time me and my wing would approach sets of 4 girls and not be able to pull off the logistics was devastating. I would recommend for new guys. if you want to have easier logistics. keep the numbers even
/r/seduction12/08/20 05:46 PM
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My guy your jacked and your a decent looking guy. I honestly would defer this question to females, dont ask them how to make it better, just simple ask them would they swipe yes or no, then ask why yes or no. in my guy opinion( trying to think like a girl). you have too many shirtless pictures. you only need 1, or just wear a tank top. does the same job but looks more humble. I would take the dog picture out unless you have a picture with the dog. i dont have tinder so my computer only linked me…
/r/seduction12/08/20 05:42 PM
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I dont like how new guys use the word rejection XD. she is just being flaky. your going to experience that a lot with women, especially around the ages of 18-26 when their at the peak of their SMV. they have guys DMing them and hitting them up constantly. I wouldnt take it personal. you asked once and she read it. when she feels like getting back to you, she will. in the mean time, challenge yourself and make it a goal to find a new girl to go on the original date with.
/r/seduction12/08/20 05:25 PM
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hmmmm, keep in mind that if you compliment her like that right off the bat, then you practically have a lag time before you can compliment her again or it becomes creepy. i like giving very specific compliments when im running night game(in the clubs), because they need to be specific or the girl wont take them seriously. during day game i would rather give very broad or vague ones such as "omg your adorable", "do you get hit on by guys a lot".... these alone can help lead the conversation. the …
/r/seduction12/08/20 05:21 PM
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Start designing your game around it. i would say its only a problem insomuchas you see it as a problem. i would use it for openers, use it to talk about oral sex, etc etc. make up fake stories about a bar fight, or try to make a hero story from it. this is a good opportunity for you to have some fun and get out of your comfort zone
/r/seduction12/08/20 05:15 PM
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You: is this seat taken? women: no its fine you can sit down You: i know your thinking this is strange but i promised my dad i would have a 5 minute conversation with the first cute girl i saw today(( my advice to you is anytime you do a cold approach learn how to throw in a time restraint, this makes her feel comfortable, you are letting her know that if the conversation goes down hill, how much of her time you plan on "wasting")) . I KNOW my opening line sounds kind of weird and cheesy but its…
/r/seduction12/08/20 05:11 PM
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lol once you start to take more approaches and learn game more efficiently, you wont consider a girl saying no to a date a rejection. youll just say "it is what it is". good job on being brave and stepping out of your comfort zone. when your new, you probably wont get many dates. either they will say no. or they will say yes and cancel or reschedule at last minute. stay strong my guys
/r/seduction12/08/20 05:03 PM
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If your a good dancer, then yes thats a good way to grab attention at clubs, but as we all know. it takes much more than grabbing attention to be able to "get" the girl. don't go out of your way to learn it if you have no interest in it. most clubs/bars I go to in tampa, no one dances, the guys just mean mug and the girls wait to be approached. usually only the carribea n or hispanic places i go to have people dancing
/r/seduction12/08/20 05:00 PM
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" Lesson of the story, as a 4 you CAN approach 8’s and could hit it off but it won’t work out everytime. Though if you can work up the courage to approach an 8 as a 4 then you can approach anyone. " everytime is an understatement. it wont work MOST of the time. good job for building up the courage. its hard to help you out here because you didnt elaborate on how you opened the conversation, or the direction of the conversation. I would say the only thing i dont like about this is, within the fir…
/r/seduction12/08/20 04:55 PM
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Thanks everyone, here was the link, cheers https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=11D1k4Scax4
/r/seduction30/04/18 09:56 PM
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starts at 2:00 minutes
/r/seduction23/02/18 11:48 PM
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livestream done. here is the video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G1fz8FrKP6Q
/r/seduction23/02/18 11:47 PM
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