organizing the harem

B2theP · 2016-01-08T12:31:30+00:00

I mean you guys are looking for something I'm not sure exists in the real world. You might get lucky and find one girl that's into it just for the sex. But to find multiple women? Most always when I end up sleeping with a girl, she develops emotions or vice versa. A lot more of them becoming emotionally attached than I do but that's neither here nor there. It's human nature man. Unless your forking out some cash for backpage prostitutes you're never going to find what you're looking for. If you do. Make a post and let us know your secret.

TheMinistryOfAwesome · 2016-01-08T10:00:54+00:00

Okay. a harem is pretty much my end-goal too.

I've got a few girls (about 5 at the moment) some are kind of more dating material than others. But the girls who i'm just kinda of hanging around with and fucking - i'm very open about having other girls, but generally don't say anything if it doesn't come up in conversation. It's just not needed.

Last week I had 4 'dates' and thats rolling off the back of the previous week's wednesday spending the night over at another girl's place. The thought of powering through 4 dates, staying up late, fucking, wasting my evenings was enough to have me re-organise my life a bit so I wouldn't be able to make it.

At some point if there isn't much investment in a girl spending a whole night talking, hanging out, fucking becomes an ordeal if it's happening multiple times per week.

The PUA guys/gurus kind of make their life and living out of it, so it's quite okay for them to be partying. I guess hardcore people too who want to fasttrack into amazingness will go out many nights per week too. But for me.

I work a full time job I read a book per week I train about 12-15hrs per week I work on hobby projects and stuff And i still try to be social with friends and groups etc.

Cutting a chunk of your week out for boning quickly loses its interest without more from the girl than her ass.

To answer your question - three. Maybe one during the week and one at weekend and rota them. But they key is really to be constantly approaching and getting new numbers/contacts/girls etc. Even if you don't regularly see any of them, it's nice to have a larger list of people you can call if you're bored or particularly in need.

Title	organizing the harem
Author	montymagnet
Upvotes	0
Comments	5
Date	January 8, 2016 9:46 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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