So i have read many things on this and i just wanna say that until a few weeks ago i didn t pick up any girl on the street and i didn t have a gf either though i could ( just me being stupid) so i am on the street looking to a beautiful older girl and thought to myself why the fuck can't i say something, i m confident about my body abilities, sense of humour etc but when it comes to girls man i loose it very fast. So in a nutshell i went to her told her she was cute ( apparently this is one of the best ways) and she said thanks though she seemed hesitant. So i let her alone but the sensation when it was over man i never felt like this before. So i did it again with another woman who turned out to be much older but just the fact that i told her that made me feel like i was making progress. Now many times i find excuses like she s too old although with just a few years (i m 17) or that she s with someone else and i just get frustrated at the end of the day for just not having the guts again. What's your opinion and advice o this?