Just some things to remember when out and about picking up or even just everyday relationships. Some have probably already been discussed but this is what has helped me find success recently.

  1. Luck favors the bold.
  2. Knowing your self worth is key. You’re the coach of your life. She’s trying out for you. When you meet people you should be worried about YOU liking them. Not them liking you. 3, Going off of number two you need to remember that when you know what you have to offer, others who dont come along are missing out. Take pity on them and say fuck it and move on.
  3. Confidence leads you to not worry about competition. She might have other options but if shes having fun and enjoying your company don’t worry about them. Keep options open and talk to other women until your number is called (Dont put all your eggs in one basket) 5.If you have a sense of entitlement/ bad ego, you need to lose it. No one owes you shit. She doesnt even owe you a response. Brush it off and move on 6.Embrace failure/rejection. No one learns anything by getting it right all the time.
  4. Think with your head not your dick. You need the power to break away and determine whether shes really interested or leading you on. Women use men all the time for ego boosts. Make sure you’re getting what you want in return or leave. Relationships are 2 way streets.
  5. Say whats in your gut. If you feel like you’re being used tell her. Just go about it in a more relaxed manner. But she needs to know what you want from her fairly early into the communication stage. (Example) “You know what I want with you, i feel like im wasting my time and being led on. I dont like being in the dark and dont enjoy having my time and energy wasted. So i think its best i just step away from you” - if she gives you what you want, great. If not, let her go who cares u can meet someone else
  6. one of the most important- HAVE FUN . Seriously have fun doing whatever it is you do including pickup
  7. Treat every woman you approach, conversation you have, hell every rep in the gym or shift at work like its the LAST TIME YOU’LL EVER DO IT. Hope this helps some of you if not i hope you find what does help you .