So I have been on a few dates recently and theyve all gone poorly for one reason or another and Im not sure how to improve.

Date 1: Met up at a museum things are going well learning about her, she suggests we get a drink, sit side by side and shes very enthusiastic then she invites me on a night out with some of her colleagues and go, I get quite drunk and tho we go home together I think I embarrassed myself, needless to say no second date

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Date 2: Meet up at the museum, then get a pint. Im not very interested in her but decide why not. She brings up her ex's and enquires if i still talk to my ex, not sure if the date was flirty, not physical contact really, she leaves at 7pm to go to a netball game she told me about before the date. neithe rof us message each other post date.

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Date 3: I turn up mildly hungover but not sure if she realised, we flirty alot walking around, then we go to a pub and have a few, again she made plans in the evening as did i to see friends, sat next to each other conversaiton going ewell but by third hour convo is slowing down and feels a bit forced and loose the energy. I message her after the date thinking its gone well, she does not reply

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Date 4: meet up at a wine bar, I buy the bottle she does not offer to split or anything which is odd for me most girls usually split or do rounds, this girl is australian so i think maybe different culture. we are talking loads about everything, the girl is a bit sarcastic and mean in a playful way, we leave the bar to go to a music place/bar, get there the queue is too long, i suggest we got to a casino she its vv much against gambling tho i dont gamble, just the casino i know has a nice bar. we go to a pub i order a drink, she choose not to buy a drink, at this point the energy has died and were both no longer tipsy, she stops asking any questions about me and tbh ive lost interest too, we leave, neither of us messageed each other.

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So Im not sure if im not vetting ym dates enough before agreeing to meet, i met them all off apps, I am not sure if my behaviour is weird or whats going on, any advice would help and happy to answer further questions, i am posting as usually im quite good at first dates and dont struggle to get a seocnd but recently i suckkkkk. idk whats changed