Hey guys,

As always, we are trying to have a holistic understanding of the game. We want to target everything that is going to help you become a high-value guy from fashion to nutrition to online behaviors. I see a lot of you making these MASSIVE mistakes, which are turning you into low-value guys. Hopefully, these tips serve as a course-correcting for you guys to become high-value guys. Unfortunately, a lot of people who give free advice out there give it without an adequate context. Therefore, it is easily misunderstood. 

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1-Telling girls you are cute, beautiful or hot

She knows that she's attractive. Everyone else is already doing this. Therefore, you look as low value as the other guys if you are telling her she's hot. She's never had sex with the guy who is liking every picture, telling her she is beautiful and worshipping her. She is having sex with the guy behind the camera, not with the guy in front of the camera. She makes fun of the guy paying her for pictures or videos. There are a time and a place to compliment girls, but that's not on a public platform like Instagram. When I'm on Instagram, all I do is send a low investment fire emo or a princess emoji, and that's it. My investment is meager, but I acknowledge her pictures as cold. 

2-Liking every one of her images, posts or comments

Another massive mistake most guys are making. Most guys are trying to get a girl's attention, but so is everyone else. When I'm on IG or Bumble, all I do is I like one picture or comment of her, at max, I'll want two or three and then follow her, and that's it. I don't bother giving long compliments to her or liking all of her photos its only low-value guys who do this behavior. I always keep things short and to the point.

Moreover, if she ignores more, I let it go. There's nothing more pathetic than a guy how is actively ignored yet keeps on texting her. To the girl, you are just a number and a follower of her and not a person.

3- Sending long-winded messages

Imagine you had to answer a job ad of applicants. Most of your texts will be to the point and concrete. You want to qualify the candidate to see if they are right for the job or not. You don't have time to be asking a lot of questions or doing a bunch of small talks. The rule of text messages is always to text slightly less than what the girl texts. If she sends you a four lines paragraph, send her a three-line section. You need to make sure you are always investing less. The only exceptions are when you need to give her directions to a place. Make sure you give her as much info about the area as possible don't ruin your chances for trying to text less. 

4- Dragging conversations

Unfortunately, a lot of you guys have become obsessed with all these game techniques like push/pull, cocky and funny, breaking rapport, and teasing. Most of these techniques involve appealing to the girl's emotions. While it can be fun to do this, both doing it wrong and excessively teasing will ruin your set. For instance, if you try to make a joke when the time is not right, the girl will think you are weird. Since a lot of you are inexperienced, you'd likely read up on these techniques online, and you will apply them wrong since you lack the proper context.

Moreover, if you do them excessively and don't move the interaction forwards, the girl will see you as a "dancing monkey."

5-Not calling her out

If a girl says something stupid, call her out on her behavior. For instance, if she makes an obvious mistake, point it out to her. Now don't be obnoxious with this but be willing to poke fun her. This behavior gets you to her level.

Meanwhile, other guys will not dare to question her, and she will see as a pushover.You need to make sure it isn't mean spirited. For instance, if she trips, don't make fun of her since she'll think you are an idiot. 

Conclusion

I hope you guys learn from this list. I plan on making a part II. Part II will cover more actions that you are doing that are making you come across as low value. Honestly, guys, while some of you are willing to learn, they are others who need the most help. Some guys are way below the standard, and instead of looking at themselves, they point the finger at others or even myself. You stop what you are doing and ask yourself:, "Am I acting like a low-value guy?"