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[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Tbh, I use the same way of conversation with my buddies as I do with ladies. Playful teasing, telling cool stories, having concrete views and not just agreeing to please. Where it differs is the man to woman aspect. Although; ima be real, some of the teases I give my buddies can be considered man to woman. It’s more of a joke when it’s with my bros, and more seductive when I am speaking with a lady. GL buddy.
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yep. Being genuine is important. Women seem to be able to sense when a guy is not being his authentic self. Fortunately for me, I'm naturally a cocky asshole, so my authentic self can be very alluring! hahahaha. When I tried to be "nice" and agreeable and pleasant it was a disaster. I had to get in touch with my inner douche bag, then learn how to throttle it.
[–]nostatoch 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's for the advice! Sounds useful.
[–]smoothmax 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
You can practice with random people as you propose, and even easier is to practice with your family, roommates, friends, classmates, co-workers etc.
Flirting isn't always about DHV, being sexual and dominant, talking about possible future dates etc. Mostly it's about being pleasant, a little bit funny, being a good listener and appreciating other people. These basic things you can practice on your mother, sister, boss, and the waiter who brings you food.
So with a hot babe 90% is your usual pleasant self, and the last 10% of finding out where she lives, if she's single, if she's available Friday night is relatively easy to introduce. And often the girl brings these subjects up because she was so charmed with your interaction.
And you can practice "family and roommate game" face to face during quarantine.
[–]relentless_pma 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I can understand improving social skills and just being a cool guy to talk with is very good. But is there not a difference between talking with family and talking with a girl. Because you have to flirt in the latter and maybe not being too much of a nice guy.
[–]smoothmax 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I don't think you should treat your family and friends differently from girls you want to date. The ratio of nice guy to bad boy (compliments to negs) has to do with your normal personality and the other person's personality.
You don't become "Mr. Tease and Neg" suddenly because you're talking to a hot babe. If a girl is sweet and nice and she likes you, no need to knock her down a peg. Likewise, if your roommate tells you that your shoes look gay you can banter back at him and say, "OK ... if you hang around with gays a lot."
[–]relentless_pma 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Hmm good point. So healthy flirting (without too much PUA stuff) could be very related to good social skills is what you are saying here?
[–]smoothmax 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes! I think that is true. When I was in college I had 2 friends who were great natural pickup artists.
One of them only was good with women when he was drunk. The rest of the time he was a cool guy, but he could never get anywhere with women when he was sober. So I think there is nothing to learn from him because depending on alcohol is a bad strategy.
The other guy was really funny and flirtatious all the time with everybody. With guys and girls. I even saw him joke around with gay guys. I saw him hanging around with girls all the time and he was always smiling, asking them questions, making little jokes. Besides being a fun guy to be around his only other secrets were that he was good at remembering girls names and using them, he dressed and groomed better than most guys, and he had his act together so he worked hard at school and always had a good job.
He was a bit loud at times which was his personality. I think you don't have to be loud and boisterous to have charisma. You can be quiet and still engage with people. Remember their names, listen to them, laugh at their jokes, speak very little, but speak with confidence when you do. And of course, don't miss any opportunities to escalate with girls when they give you IOIs.
[–]manleesam1025 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
$30/hr.
[–]nostatoch -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Lol
[–]manleesam1025 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Willing to negotiate lol
[–]nostatoch 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Thanks buddy but it's a no if you are serious :)
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I only charge $20/hr and am highly skilled. I pick up 9-12 girls monthly. Will accept paypal
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Thank you very much! There are a lot of things to study here.
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