So recently I've been putting myself out there and a ton and been approaching and online dating to maximize results, I'm starting to get sticking points, setting up multiple dates and having girls interested me. Now, last month I had only just lost my virginity at the age of 21 and was understandably very inexperienced and clumsy, I still am I imagine. In the past I've took girls back to mine and got them off with foreplay which I'm skilled at, then nothing else, either because whisky dick or I was too nervous to mess up (find hole, awkward stroke etc.) but I did date a girl for a couple of months and she was patient with me which gave me hope, sadly it didn't last so right now I'm back at square one.

Like I've said, I'm constantly setting up dates with very attractive girls now whether it be through bars or tinder, I can't help but feel discouraged because no matter how good my dates are, they may eventually lead to sex...which is a plus right? Not so much, sometimes I wanna keep these girls around and to do that I'll have to be good at sex right? I don't want to have to fumble around and be embarrassed like I did with the first girl and in a sense I do still feel like a virgin at times. Now, I have a few girls interested in me that Im really not attracted to at all and it would be fair to say theyre below my standards without being cocky about it, it is wise to bang these chicks a few times just to gain experience before sleeping with the ones I'm attracted to..?