Ever talk to a girl and feel nervous? Already defeated? Stiff? Sexually held back out of fear?

Any problem with being relaxed, confident, sexual, taking things lightly and assuming success can be subconsciously solved with what's called priming. Priming is when we think about things that prepare us for the right frame in a given situation. Tony Robbins is well known for priming with physical motions that change his physiology and mood. Studies have shown that people who do power poses before entering interviews perform better than those who did not. So whether it's physical or mental, priming can be very useful in seduction and many other aspects of life.

I recently started imagining whatever girl I'm approaching or talking to flirtatiously flashing her tits and pumping them up and down like some spring break hoe or burlesque dancer with pasties and tassels on her nipples trying to attract attention. It accomplishes a-lot of things because of what the gesture means:

  1. Its funny
  2. It's friendly
  3. It's fun
  4. Its sexual and fosters man to woman
  5. Its means she's pursuing you
  6. Its Free-spirited and lighthearted
  7. It's Exciting

You can think of your own go to primer, but preloading your brain with these thoughts will dump good emotions and inner game into you and trickle down into your outer game. I find whenever I think of this I feel happy, disinhibited and generally am prone to see the funny side of things and turn conversations in a funny, sexual and flirty direction. Instantly puts this sly, flirty, confident grin and makes me want to laugh. Can be a real lifesaver when going into an approach you waited too long for and overthought, or in general situations.

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