Hi guys, its 5:30 AM and I'm not sleepy. I hate how they put caffeine with MDMA :) Anyways I am not an expert, I spent 1.5 learning and practicing PUA. After that I just be myself whenever I interact with girls because I thought that I created a natural PUA. I got in a relationship that only last 4 months, and now I am back in the game.

I learned the principles from Mystery, patterning + ect.. from Ross Jefferies, but I think I am most influenced by Swinggcat. If you guys have time please read and audiobook his materials, they are very helpful.

Okay first let define what is a frame. Frame is the meaning of your interaction. In an interaction between a guy and girl, an action can have many meanings. Let me give you an example.

You walk up to a girl and say hi

that is an action, but you get to decide what is the meaning behind it.

a) you think this girl is interesting and want to see if she is up to your standard so you start a conversation with her.

b) you think the girl is hot, want to ask her number and see maybe you might be her type.

The frame i want you to set is a). You see in an interaction, people have to put meanings into it. Setting a frame is defining the interaction how you want to believe. In an interaction, the person that control the frame ( meaning of an interaction ) is the one that truly believe in his frame. In a interaction with groups or single girl, you always want to set the frame you want.

Frame are your beliefs that will define an interaction. If you are truly believe that women need to suck your dick to stay alive while walking up to a group of women then the women will think that way too.

Frame are beliefs! Here is some that I learned from Swinggcat, you guys are welcome to give me some more awesome frame.

  1. I am the PRIZE.
  2. She is trying to get me to like her or trying to win me over--whether it be in the sense of attraction, acceptance or validation.
  3. That she wants me so bad that she is trying to make me sleep with her.
  4. The both of us are going to sleep together, but only if she lives up to my standards and expectations.

In an interaction, if your frame is strong, you will read all her actions as following your frame. Let me give you an example:

You see a girl at the bar, you walk up to her and say hi, she say hi smiling at you ask if you could buy her a drink :) pretty please.

AFC frame: In your mind, "Oh she is interested in me, this is my chance, i would win her over and she is smiling at me, I will do things that will make her happy so she will choose me"

PUA: In your mind, "Woah, I just said hi to this girl and she already asked me to buy her a drink. She just lost 10 points right there. I will give her another chance and if she blew it then she is out."

"Hey now! Do you always ask people to buy you drink when you just met them? That is not very nice at all, I always at least talk to the girl and let her impressed me with an outraged sex story before letting her by me a drink."

If you guys have any advices and tips on frame controlling please share it.

I met a friend in my class that is starting to learn PUA too. I will start reviewing/practicing more with my friend and a lot of FR after springbreak. We will record the interaction so we all could learn from mistake.

More advices and tips are welcome in this thread. Cheers