I'm no stranger to Seddit. I read the advice here pretty frequently and one of the most impactful suggestions (to my life) I've seen, is that one should try to lead an active, fun life and try not to rely on texting as a crutch.

Now this is great if you're trying to move away from checking your texts every so often like an AFC. But after a while, I notice that I'm getting too caught up in my active, busy life to actually text anyone.

Every time I get on my phone and the thought to text some numbers comes up, I dismiss it because I have the mindset that I'm a busy person and that I shouldn't bother with texting. (To the point where I haven't texted except for business/work for this whole month)

I think this brings me further and further away from the whole purpose of seduction and I'm not sure if this is the intended outcome.

Is this an issue? Should I do something about it?