Problems with second step having dates

boot_leg_therapy · 2020-04-21T04:40:28+00:00

When it comes to knowing when to "make the move," it is simply going to take time and practice. I would air on the side of caution when making a move. However, just keep going on dates and see what happens.

Dating will get easier with time. It is very likely that you are going to be an awkward mess for the first 20 times. I would recommend, you just let yourself be awkward for a while and remember that you are learning. Do not assume that your first couple of dates are going to be home-runs.

maroro04 · 2020-04-18T15:24:44+00:00

I think confidence on “making the move” comes with experience. I remember my first few dates were very awkward, but I did my best to go with the flow. When there’s real sexual chemistry, you should be able to feel it and act on it accordingly. You may have trouble feeling this sexual energy (if there’s any) at first because of the dates, but with experience things will become more natural. Of course this is just my experience, but I hope it helps.

JusticePU · 2020-04-19T12:17:14+00:00

that's actually really interesting

Browneyedgirl_08 · 2020-04-19T14:48:29+00:00

I’m gonna run with what dude said about paying attention to body language. If she’s smiling/laughing those are indicators that she’s having a good time. I know it’s old fashioned but you can always ask if you can kiss her. You could even say it cutesy and make a joke of it just like that.. “call me old fashioned, but can I give you a good night kiss?”... then make that kiss phenomenal by gracefully running a hand up her neck and pulling her close as you do so.

Just saying from a girls perspective.

And if she says no, then that’s OKAY! it just gives you practice and the ability to move on to the next.

Title	Problems with second step having dates
Author	jakobolobo
Upvotes	2
Comments	7
Date	April 18, 2020 3:00 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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