How do you all text girls you are casually dating in the initial stages (first 3 or 4 dates) to keep them interested, assuming they aren’t the ones reaching out first? I see things like dont text except for scheduling dates, but I feel this approach tends to backfire and girls feel like you’re just aloof and lose interest when you ask them out again (granted, they also could have just messaged me if they wanted to.) I also know you don’t want to be blowing up her phone everyday, so is a whenever you feel like it strategy best, keeping it light and fun? Curious how you all do it? What have you seem work and not work?