Pulling alone

IWriteForGroupies · 2017-04-20T07:47:10+00:00

It's usually more comfortable being with my guys/a wingman as it adds more "credibility" or whatever you wanna call it to you.

Its not hard to find wingman when you go out. You just have to find the guys with social anxiety and afraid to approach women. Then you just do a little approach magic and include them.

Jack__Knife · 2017-04-20T14:13:13+00:00

Are you looking for that 'same day lay'? Or just pulling alone?

failatsomething · 2017-04-20T21:47:08+00:00

Go out alone! It's hugely freeing to be able to go out and have a good time. To not be dependent on friends for fun is an amazing feeling.

I do this all the time, especially weeknights cuz people are lame lol. But often I won't invite others to go out with me. I'll actually make sure I'm going out by myself once or twice a week.

Weekends too. It's healthy to go out alone on weekends. It's also damn scary. People role in groups, and it's expected you will too. You will learn quick to deal with social pressure of:

Just not being in a group and answering the question "where are your friends" when you aren't out with anyone.
Not having friends to walk back to and laugh with after a set. On to the next one.
Dealing with obstacles like her friends all on your own.

You're really taking the PUA training wheels off if you go out alone. No one races the Tour de France with training wheels ;)

Post a FR of your first night out by yourself. If it goes anything like my first night out by myself it will read something like: "Walked around with a drink in my hand. Made eye contact but she was with friends and I was scared away so I got another drink."

Versus a FR these days "I walked into the bar. Didn't get a drink. Gave a fist bump to a girl as I walked by then looked at her like she was weird. Walked up to two girls sitting at the bar and said, 'Oh heyyyyy'..." lol.

Title	Pulling alone
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Upvotes	1
Comments	3
Date	April 20, 2017 3:05 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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