Pulling back method and social media advice

friesbruh · 2019-10-03T15:06:37+00:00

I stopped reading at “drove five hours but didn’t kiss her.” DUDE. It’s a million wonders she didn’t next you right there as soon as you left and as for leaving notes, no, do not, especially with a girl you didn’t even have the guts to kiss. You know what it says? “Hi I like you but I’m too scared to be physical with you in person and so I’ll leave a note that way you can’t reject to my face.”

axe122 · 2019-10-03T14:47:43+00:00

So I’ll tell you where I think you went wrong is the note you left her. Girlfriends like that stuff when they are in love with you but if you do that kind of stuff for a girl (your only technically on a second third and fourth date with) she gets turned off. If she’s still responding it’s not over but it’s gonna be hard to play this and repair her interest. I would honestly prepare to never see her again. So if your on social media don’t like all her shot you can post things your doing occasionally I guess I don’t even do social media cuz I think it’s for bored people to tout their achievements (unless your putting up pics with hot chicks and you together don’t expect her to care about your posts. So don’t like everything she posts on social media is pulling back. Don’t text her all day everyday so wait 2 days text her, if she takes an hour to respond and it short you do the same for about 5 texts, then every 6th message try shortening the time gap and lead her to texting more. Honestly I wish you luck and hope she comes back but if you are gonna be the one who keeps going to her at a5 hour distance your lowering your value like I’ll do anything just to see you.if she’s not willing to come to your area one of these times you should just move on she’s very low interest and will eventually ghost you or tell you o don’t feel a spark, you’ll have then wasted month with someone you barely seee not focusing on local girls that you could be enjoying their company regularly. Good luck.

punisha1 · 2019-10-03T15:56:49+00:00

He's right bro. leaving notes, not getting physical and driving five hours to see her are signs someone is headed to the friendzone...boyfriend zone if you're lucky but not likely. your time and presence is too abundant and convenient for her. Start dating multiple girls and than lets see if you're willing to drive 5 - 6 hours to see ONE girl without hooking up or barely just a kiss... My advice. P.S. Also as I was reading this, I thought you 2 were in high school actually instead of in your 30's. Dont fall into her frame of social media games and pretending to act aloof and mysterious all by waiting by the phone. Actually do and have things going on with your time.

Title	Pulling back method and social media advice
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Date	October 3, 2019 1:02 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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