I have recently ended contact with a woman who was not living up to my level of emotional commitment,She has some personal issues which aren't allowing us to progress together and It feels like I am being given the run around and countless shit tests!

I sent her the following message

Sorry XXX,What was working before with me and you just isn't any more,My heart tells me i have more feelings than what we have. I deserve a level of openness and right now you are not able to meet that...It is for the best that this ends....I had a great time with you and wish you every success in life J

She replied with the

"You really don't understand me at all"

"I knew you would do this"

"Everytime things get a little hard you bail on me"

"I am gutted"

I have heard no more for the past 12 hours or so and things seem to have quietened down a little

My question is I plan on giving this 3 days to a week in length of no contact in the hope she will realise that I have personal boundaries.

When do I reply to these messages? At what point do I give her a second chance? And how long does it usually take for a woman to realise the emotional investment in her has now gone and want to get in touch properly with me to sort things out?