How do i best do this thing where i am holding her hands, pull them back hold her at her back lean in, hold her and make her almost lie on the floor, but i am holding her, i am very close to her face and then i pull her back up. How do i do that with a girl i just started dancing with? She doesnt know that i will do it and it could be very akward if she refuses to fall back or moves back or if we bump into each other