Compliments & sexual topics. When are they too much?

SnapSocialGuru · 2017-02-09T16:19:43+00:00

You're experiencing "sexually analytical freeze" (SAF). Yup, I just made that up.

What that means is that you're overthinking this so much that you end up not ever taking action at all.

Instead, you're waiting on someone to tell you how to do it.

A cornerstone of the /r/seduction community is to go out and try things yourself.

Testing things out, man! You tell us: does it work better to make a sexual comment once a week or once every few days? Is it better if you say X or if you say Y?

Whatever you do be self aware and notice what works versus what doesn't. That will help you more than this community ever could.

Senaserilli · 2017-02-09T17:05:19+00:00

As a girl, i can say..

I can feel when the complimant is real or just to get attention.

You can complimant her tone of voice, You can compliment her looks (not eyes,looks) You can compliment the shape of her mouth when she smiles or laughs (not just 'you have a beautiful smile')

You can find deeper things in your sentences to make her believe that you 'realize' her beauty. Haha :D

My english is really bad, i hope you understand

ItMeAedri · 2017-02-09T16:13:52+00:00

If you constantly compliment her, you will come off as someone desperate for attention. Reserve compliments for genuine achievements. Like... She gets a winning shot at a contest.

Ptolemy222 · 2017-02-09T16:44:07+00:00

Do it as it flows out of you. Compliment when it's to be complimented. Sexual topics when you want to talk about it.

Treat them with the same value as talking about your dog or something.

ImJustSo · 2017-02-10T03:55:48+00:00

Different things work for different people and the same things don't work for others.

Having said that, I don't compliment women and I do great.

Comyu · 2017-02-10T14:06:24+00:00

Give compliments spontaneously and when it feels right to do so. I would be very cautious about making sexually suggestive comments: at best you will appear too much, at worst a sleazy sex pest.

Also, avoid the entire PUA industry. Mainly manipulative priapic failures with no social skills. Most women see through that shit like a window.

Title	Compliments & sexual topics. When are they too much?
Author	Comyu
Upvotes	21
Comments	24
Date	February 9, 2017 4:01 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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