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| 5 | “I’m confused. You’re really hot but you act very feminine”Lmao. | /r/seduction | 20/09/19 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Here's everything I've learned about women, dating, sex, PUA, and seduction in my decades of life.In your 30’s. Where did you go to meet women? Or do you just approach everything? | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 01:25 PM |
| 0 | What is an attractive way to act with women who have rejected you, or you've tried unsuccessfully with?"No wait... I'm rich" Just assume she's shallow and she's looking for a man with money. or "What did I do wrong?" Make it a joke. | /r/seduction | 23/08/19 05:13 PM |
| 2 | Girls are telling me they're "Not feeling it" With me. How do I change this?Thank you. | /r/seduction | 14/08/19 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Girls are telling me they're "Not feeling it" With me. How do I change this?Who is good on there though? | /r/seduction | 14/08/19 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Girls are telling me they're "Not feeling it" With me. How do I change this?From what resources? | /r/seduction | 14/08/19 09:29 AM |
| 1 | Girls are telling me they're "Not feeling it" With me. How do I change this?I don’t mind rejection. But I think I get more rejections than normal. | /r/seduction | 14/08/19 09:03 AM |
| 1 | Girls are telling me they're "Not feeling it" With me. How do I change this?Yes. Is that a bad thing? How do I stop it? | /r/seduction | 14/08/19 01:48 AM |
| 1 | I am really bad with women and I have no idea why. How do I become better?I try. But the last couple times the girl was with her friends. I pushed a bit but she said she was with her friends and she can’t. So I told them okay. | /r/seduction | 07/08/19 02:13 PM |
| 1 | You guys have any good push/pull or flirting lines?You’re awesome. Lmao. | /r/seduction | 18/07/19 12:48 AM |
| 3 | Because someone posted Spot RSD Taylor raping a stripper, someone messaged me to post this as wellRSD helped me a lot with dating. I mean a lot. I don’t think this stuff is good at all. But I am happy they exist. They really helped me out of a hole of darkness. And that no means no. I feel like some of the stories are cherry picked for the amount of years they've been doing this. Also I see how much they talk about change and correcting their mistakes. | /r/seduction | 02/07/19 09:38 PM |
| 0 | Need advice. I met a girl on Saturday night and we exchanged numbers. I sent her this quick vid on Sunday night but I have not heard back from her. Please help tell me what I’m doing wrong.Noooooooo no no no. I hope this is a joke. | /r/seduction | 25/06/19 02:53 PM |
| 5 | Police: "you harass girls!", got a fine of €100 and criminal recordThis shit scares me the most. | /r/seduction | 03/06/19 10:10 PM |
| 1 | I keep going out. I still have no idea what I’m doing. But is there like a mission guide? Like what I should do night per night?Well I understand confidence. Fun. But it’s like so confusing to me and I’m still going out asking interview questions. I feel like I’m still confused as hell. | /r/seduction | 02/06/19 12:28 PM |
| 1 | I keep going out. I still have no idea what I’m doing. But is there like a mission guide? Like what I should do night per night?Like a lot of RSD and a lot of just smaller books. | /r/seduction | 02/06/19 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Any tips for texting someone you just met?Start texting about an inside joke you both have during when you met. | /r/seduction | 26/05/19 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Seduction 2019Sex - 8. Almost 9 last night but she left at the very last second because I messed up. Make out - idk. | /r/seduction | 26/05/19 12:27 PM |
| 2 | Texting a girl. How do I text a girl I like? I have read a bit, but I just want to figure out some moreThis is probably the most detailed explanation. And it makes a lot of sense to me. Wow. | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Gaming with friends. The girls attention ALWAYS goes to my friends.Yeah. I see what you mean. But I feel like I should be able to game well despite any interaction. Like what if it was guys I didn’t know? | /r/seduction | 12/05/19 02:30 PM |
| 6 | Gaming with friends. The girls attention ALWAYS goes to my friends.He's actually attractive, but He says it himself. He’s got way better game then me to be honest. | /r/seduction | 12/05/19 01:15 PM |
| 2 | Gaming with friends. The girls attention ALWAYS goes to my friends.They are not that much better looking than me. In fact one guys is not better looking than me by a long shot. | /r/seduction | 12/05/19 11:33 AM |
| 3 | Gaming with friends. The girls attention ALWAYS goes to my friends.They are not that much better looking than me. In fact one guys is not better looking than me by a long shot. | /r/seduction | 12/05/19 11:32 AM |
| 1 | Going to clubs. I can feel when I'm talking to a girl their either not interested, or that they are replying to be nice. But I can feel the undertones. Not sure what to do.Just what ever comes to my head. Mostly just where I’m from and what I’m doing. Actually one girl I told her I killed a man with my tongue. Which is weird. But I wanted to see the reaction. | /r/seduction | 10/05/19 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Going to clubs. I can feel when I'm talking to a girl their either not interested, or that they are replying to be nice. But I can feel the undertones. Not sure what to do.I’ll be honest. I am naturally a bit socially awkward. But I approach when ever. Like the other day I was talking to some girls and I was telling them where I was from. And how I’m not from the area but I wanted to go to somewhere more busy. And how I don’t like my city and I’m trying. To get out. Basically almost rambling. I am unsure what to say to be honest. | /r/seduction | 10/05/19 02:27 AM |
| 3 | Going to clubs. I can feel when I'm talking to a girl their either not interested, or that they are replying to be nice. But I can feel the undertones. Not sure what to do.I feel like I'm getting left with the very unattractive girls. I have heard the beginning of the interaction is like 90% me talking, 10% the girl talking. I was just trying to figure out how to change the vibe from boring to positive. Is there any way to do that? | /r/seduction | 10/05/19 02:20 AM |
| 3 | Going to clubs. I can feel when I'm talking to a girl their either not interested, or that they are replying to be nice. But I can feel the undertones. Not sure what to do.But I can't tell if it's the value i'm bringing in terms of being social or is it because they just aren't interested. I can't tell. | /r/seduction | 10/05/19 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Going to clubs. I can feel when I'm talking to a girl their either not interested, or that they are replying to be nice. But I can feel the undertones. Not sure what to do.It's pretty early. Like yesterday I was talking about how I wasn't from the area, and that I'm checking it out. Where I'm originally from is not super great and I wanted to move. Blah blah blah. That would be an example of something I'd say. | /r/seduction | 10/05/19 02:12 AM |
| 3 | Going to clubs. I can feel when I'm talking to a girl their either not interested, or that they are replying to be nice. But I can feel the undertones. Not sure what to do.I keep talking, but they will eventually walk off. | /r/seduction | 10/05/19 02:11 AM |
| 2 | 1000+ approaches, lots of instant rejections, how to stay motivated?Yeah. I agree with the vibe. It sounds like you might be trying too hard and not having enough fun. I am hoping you are dressed well also, means a lot for opening. What are you saying as your opener? Remember there will be a lot of rejections. You should have a bit of positive feedback. Also, how often are you going out? | /r/seduction | 04/05/19 06:09 PM |
| 1 | I can get a hook. I can get a club make out. But I don’t know how to keep her interest longer or what to talk about.It feels complicated. I am not sure why this is so difficult for me. Do you know good references? I’ll keep trying. | /r/seduction | 29/04/19 12:40 AM |
| 1 | When you guys pick up girls what do you do?Well she was acting more friendly with me. And then she said “nice to meet you” I got the number but I don’t think she’s going to text me back. I’m not really upset about it. But I’m not sure if it was me or maybe it was how I was acting. It’s always a hard tell. | /r/seduction | 21/04/19 05:47 PM |
| 1 | When you guys pick up girls what do you do?But I’m not sure why the rejection. | /r/seduction | 21/04/19 05:45 PM |
| 1 | When you guys pick up girls what do you do?Well last night she was incredibly receptive. I moved her around the club. Talked a bit. Then I kind of ran out of topics and walked away. I came back. She was super receptive again. I moved her around again. Made out with her. Picked her up. Brought her back to her friends. I didn’t know what else to do. I was with my friends for a couple more hours and then I reapproached and asked what she was doing later. She said good with her friends. I told her to come with me but she said she can’t. So I… | /r/seduction | 21/04/19 05:29 PM |
| 0 | When you guys pick up girls what do you do?Yeah. More of a club setting. I think I could talk a lot more on a date. One on one. | /r/seduction | 21/04/19 05:26 PM |
| 1 | When you guys pick up girls what do you do?You’d keep it up like that for a couple hours? | /r/seduction | 21/04/19 05:23 PM |
| 0 | When you guys pick up girls what do you do?Do you try to stick in the conversation as long as possible? | /r/seduction | 21/04/19 05:17 PM |
| 1 | 28/m How do I find out what I'm doing wrong faster? I feel like I only have 1 more year of clubsI did a lot of approaches. But these two interactions stood out the most. But yeah. You’re making me feel a lot better about this. Thank you. | /r/seduction | 21/04/19 07:12 AM |
| 1 | How do I get out of my head at clubs?Yeah. I mean I met a guy and he was just so smooth. He was really good. | /r/seduction | 14/04/19 03:31 PM |
| 1 | How do I get out of my head at clubs?Like where? | /r/seduction | 14/04/19 01:24 PM |
| 0 | As a girl, how do i pick up guys in bars?Talk to people. | /r/seduction | 08/04/19 10:26 PM |
| 1 | The structure of game. What does it look like?This is awesome awesome feedback. | /r/seduction | 08/04/19 03:20 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with other guys and not get stabbed?I like this actually. Like if I would have offered him something of value like a drink or something. Then I guess he’s following my frame and I would have won the approval. So I guess it’s just being a nice person overall. | /r/seduction | 03/04/19 11:41 AM |
| 1 | How do you deal with other guys and not get stabbed?Small note. I'm Canadian, and I don't want to kill anyone either. | /r/seduction | 03/04/19 01:34 AM |
| -2 | How do you deal with other guys and not get stabbed?Lol. What’s that? | /r/seduction | 02/04/19 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Anyone ever deal with beta male shaming? What do you do?Nawh, it's just my female work dynamic. I would assume they're doing this for some reason, and I would assume it would relate to my game. | /r/seduction | 01/04/19 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Anyone ever deal with beta male shaming? What do you do?Okay. I was hoping someone would explain it, because it's woman related. I guess my behavior is not super great. | /r/seduction | 01/04/19 10:02 PM |
| 2 | Anyone ever deal with beta male shaming? What do you do?I don't talk about anything game related at work. I just mean the dynamic is like this. | /r/seduction | 01/04/19 09:58 PM |
| 1 | 28. Still not good at any of this.Yeah. A coach would be best. I went out with a couple guys 1 on 1. But they don’t game often or at all. So the feedback was minimal. | /r/seduction | 25/03/19 12:01 AM |
| 1 | 28. Still not good at any of this.She was leering at me. I went up and was like “I miss you. We were supposed to run away and get married” and then she hugged me. And I looked at her and she’s like “I missed you too.” And then she looked at me seriously and was like “I’m thirsty” and I was like “there is some water over there that we can get” she’s like “not water” and then I was like “sure come on and I went to grab the hand and she just turned around. So I walked off. Like I have no idea. | /r/seduction | 24/03/19 03:17 PM |
| 1 | 28. Still not good at any of this.I’m 6 ft. I would say I’m fit but not super muscular. White. I have a bit of style. In fact once in a while I will get a woman 9/10 interested. But then after a few sentences she seems disinterested and turns away. Even the unattractive girls seem uninterested. No idea what I’m doing wrong. | /r/seduction | 24/03/19 02:54 PM |
| 1 | 28. Still not good at any of this.I honestly. Say I’m a 7-8. | /r/seduction | 24/03/19 02:24 PM |
| 2 | Went out to a club. I have no fear of rejection or approach anxiety. Got about twenty rejections. But nothing happened.Yeah. I mean. I can talk for a max of 5-10 minutes. Then I’m not sure what next. | /r/seduction | 23/03/19 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Went out to a club. I have no fear of rejection or approach anxiety. Got about twenty rejections. But nothing happened.I am a bit nervous going out still. My opener is general questions. I’m still a bit new. | /r/seduction | 23/03/19 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Went out to a club. I have no fear of rejection or approach anxiety. Got about twenty rejections. But nothing happened.I can’t tell if I’m good looking or not. I’m definitely not a 10. But I wouldn’t say I’m unattractive either. I’ll keep on trying. | /r/seduction | 23/03/19 01:20 PM |
| 3 | How do I attract a higher quality woman?I honestly feel like I’m getting lucky by random chance. Like it’s by accident to be completely honest. | /r/seduction | 18/03/19 11:40 AM |
| 1 | I got a girls number last night. I kept it up a bit. but what do I say next? (With pics)I hate to ask. But what is playful banter? I literally have nothing to say. | /r/seduction | 10/03/19 04:47 AM |
| 1 | I got a girls number last night. I kept it up a bit. but what do I say next? (With pics)I won’t see her for a week. I’m not sure what I could do. Should I set it up sooner or later? | /r/seduction | 10/03/19 04:38 AM |
| 1 | I got a girls number last night. I kept it up a bit. but what do I say next? (With pics)Yes. And she keeps double texting me. | /r/seduction | 10/03/19 04:25 AM |
| 2 | How do you have a more interesting social media?What’s smv? | /r/seduction | 09/03/19 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Went to a club this weekend and didn’t stand around (Update). My interactions only lasted 5 minutes max though.Yeah. I think I need something to say to latch onto so I can just talk about that until I feel social enough. | /r/seduction | 02/03/19 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Went to a club this weekend and didn’t stand around (Update). My interactions only lasted 5 minutes max though.Yeah. I mean. I went to the first 9 women and just asked so many questions. I felt like it was an interrogation. It was horrible. But the last one we some how started talking about hairy potter. It went much better but I ran out of things to say and bolted. | /r/seduction | 02/03/19 02:39 PM |
| 2 | Went to a club by myself last night. I didn’t open anyone. And I walked around for 15 minutes and left. Any help?This is some solid advice. I am kind of jumping right in. I feel like I’ve missed out a lot on my social life. | /r/seduction | 24/02/19 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Went to a club by myself last night. I didn’t open anyone. And I walked around for 15 minutes and left. Any help?I’m at intro level. So I’m trying to meet people first. And get the experience. I’m a guy. | /r/seduction | 24/02/19 02:12 AM |
| 2 | Went to a club by myself last night. I didn’t open anyone. And I walked around for 15 minutes and left. Any help?It actually described my situation. Thank you. | /r/seduction | 23/02/19 10:35 PM |
| -1 | Went to a club by myself last night. I didn’t open anyone. And I walked around for 15 minutes and left. Any help?What are some other low investment clubs I could go to? | /r/seduction | 23/02/19 08:04 PM |
| 2 | Went to a club by myself last night. I didn’t open anyone. And I walked around for 15 minutes and left. Any help?I just want experience to be completely honest. I figured it would be easiest. A lot of people on top of that. | /r/seduction | 23/02/19 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Went to a club by myself last night. I didn’t open anyone. And I walked around for 15 minutes and left. Any help?On weekends or everyday? I'm kind of limited on weekdays. but this really helps me see sommeone who's done this. | /r/seduction | 23/02/19 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Went to a club by myself last night. I didn’t open anyone. And I walked around for 15 minutes and left. Any help?See a girl stepped right in front of me and put her hair on me. I didn't know what to do. So I just chilled. I just felt after 15 minutes I couldn't handle it and I haven't approached, so I blew myself out. | /r/seduction | 23/02/19 04:56 PM |
| 7 | Went to a club by myself last night. I didn’t open anyone. And I walked around for 15 minutes and left. Any help?Sorry. So I see a guy and I'm like "Hey, where are you from?" "What do you do?" "Why are you here?" Want to wing with me?" | /r/seduction | 23/02/19 03:40 PM |
| 2 | Went to a club by myself last night. I didn’t open anyone. And I walked around for 15 minutes and left. Any help?I would like to try. I think the mall is the best place. but I am unsure how to hit up anywhere. Know any good locations? I will still feel awkward. but I am willing to try anything. | /r/seduction | 23/02/19 03:37 PM |
| 6 | Went to a club by myself last night. I didn’t open anyone. And I walked around for 15 minutes and left. Any help?This sounds good. I usually drink some water. and I was watching some people. but then I was getting more and more into my head. I saw one guy video taping his girl everywhere she went and I was like "Is this normal? lmao" | /r/seduction | 23/02/19 03:37 PM |
| 4 | Went to a club by myself last night. I didn’t open anyone. And I walked around for 15 minutes and left. Any help?I’m not used to clubs. I don’t even know what to do when I get there. I get quiet and then I feel like I can’t do anything. | /r/seduction | 23/02/19 03:03 PM |
| 19 | Went to a club by myself last night. I didn’t open anyone. And I walked around for 15 minutes and left. Any help?Lol. That makes me feel better. I actually stopped drinking for about 6 years now because of personal reasons (family has died from alcohol) I would feel more tense because of the alcohol. | /r/seduction | 23/02/19 02:53 PM |
| 53 | Went to a club by myself last night. I didn’t open anyone. And I walked around for 15 minutes and left. Any help?I don’t drink anymore. I really want to figure this out without alcohol. | /r/seduction | 23/02/19 02:35 PM |
| 5 | Went to a club by myself last night. I didn’t open anyone. And I walked around for 15 minutes and left. Any help?But like. Should I go and just dance. Or jump in and grind. It’s like how does one get into the momentum? | /r/seduction | 23/02/19 02:35 PM |
| 10 | Went to a club by myself last night. I didn’t open anyone. And I walked around for 15 minutes and left. Any help?Maybe like 200 people. Packed. Mostly women. I couldn’t walk around. | /r/seduction | 23/02/19 02:15 PM |
| 2 | 28/m. Women avoid me like the plague. I have no idea why or what I’m doing.I mean. I feel like I can do the inner game stuff. But when it comes to keeping anything im so perplexed. Like I need some sort of path. I have no idea what to do. | /r/seduction | 05/02/19 05:14 AM |
| 3 | 28/m. Women avoid me like the plague. I have no idea why or what I’m doing.I have spent a lot of time on myself. I mean I spent years in university trying to figure out my life and career. But I just never invested any time to meet a girl. I would honestly settle for a girl that’s not super attractive. I just have no idea what the issue is. | /r/seduction | 05/02/19 04:52 AM |
| 3 | How to game on snapchat?Fun interesting social story photos. Sending it directly to her is a tad needy. But you can message her and ask for a date or something. | /r/seduction | 27/01/19 04:27 PM |
| 1 | My ex girlfriend is hooking up with a bunch of random guys. I don’t care. But what bothers me is that I’m still high and dry. I’m tired of this. I’m going to take every opportunity to get better.I don’t care in a sense that I lost a girl cause she doesn’t give me attractive. I do care that I can’t date myself. | /r/seduction | 25/01/19 04:36 AM |
| 1 | My ex girlfriend is hooking up with a bunch of random guys. I don’t care. But what bothers me is that I’m still high and dry. I’m tired of this. I’m going to take every opportunity to get better.Approach 5 women a day. Sorry. | /r/seduction | 25/01/19 04:32 AM |
| 1 | My ex girlfriend is hooking up with a bunch of random guys. I don’t care. But what bothers me is that I’m still high and dry. I’m tired of this. I’m going to take every opportunity to get better.I think it’s the fact that I live in a super small city with no car and I can’t invite people over to my house. But I will work as much as I can to get out of it. I’m just so annoyed by my ex and all these bitches. I just just feel so unliked. And I don’t think anyone should feel this way. | /r/seduction | 25/01/19 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Is there any advice to finding time to meet girls?I don’t seem to get quality girls who share the same interests as me on dating apps. | /r/seduction | 24/01/19 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Going on 29. Never been good with women. Any advice?But then what do I do? | /r/seduction | 20/01/19 04:37 AM |
| 3 | I am the epitome of a beta. I am realizing this now. How do I get out of it?Idk. I can feel it hard. But I can’t put my finger on it. I really really want to know. | /r/seduction | 11/01/19 12:03 PM |
| 1 | I am the epitome of a beta. I am realizing this now. How do I get out of it?Although I do like the idea of working hard on myself. I have tried to make friends and be a good person. But I can tell the person with the most affection is one who speaks out and doesn’t give a shit. Idk. I just don’t get that same level of interest after someone asks me to help them. | /r/seduction | 11/01/19 04:59 AM |
| 2 | I am the epitome of a beta. I am realizing this now. How do I get out of it?Well. I can feel women shrug me off as insignificant and they sometimes even get aggressive at me. I am easily lead and ignored. And I have little to no social skills. | /r/seduction | 11/01/19 04:54 AM |
| 1 | (28/m) can’t deal with how much of a loser I feel like. I haven’t approached until I was 26 and I feel like I missed out on all of this stuff. It’s hard for me to feel abundant.I like this post. You give me motivation. | /r/seduction | 14/09/18 09:16 PM |
| 2 | (28/m) can’t deal with how much of a loser I feel like. I haven’t approached until I was 26 and I feel like I missed out on all of this stuff. It’s hard for me to feel abundant.I honestly never thought you could actually approach someone in real life and make it work. I never thought you could be forward with your actions. I always thought it was horrible to ask someone out on a date. I just feel like it was all a sham and I really screwed my self over in terms of options and I feel like I have been a bitch for a long time. Although I am not angry or annoyed with the girl. Just upset with myself. I feel like I have a couple years left to game and I feel so late. I know… | /r/seduction | 14/09/18 05:14 AM |
| 3 | How do I find wings in my area?I’ve tried a couple times. I just tell people I came and my friends left and I wanted to stay out later. But I find it difficult to really get into the flow of things if I don’t have a home base or a buddy to go back to. | /r/seduction | 08/09/18 09:19 AM |
| 2 | (M/27) I’ve made some super close connections with some girls about 4. They’re all pretty attractive. I want to pull a three way or more. But I am unsure what they would think.Interesting. I have never. Would you just naturally invite them to hang out? Or should I establish my interest first? | /r/seduction | 08/08/18 03:37 AM |
| -3 | (M/27) I’ve made some super close connections with some girls about 4. They’re all pretty attractive. I want to pull a three way or more. But I am unsure what they would think.Were not dating. But it’s just my personality. I’m just asking for threesome advice. | /r/seduction | 08/08/18 02:56 AM |
| 2 | The girls I want to meet up with always have a last minute excuse either to do something else or no reply. Any advice?I have had sex with one girl a couple times already. I just don’t know what I’m doing wrong. | /r/seduction | 02/07/18 04:06 PM |
| 1 | (M/27) I have been trying to learn for a year and I still suck really badMy friends are in relationships, so I am trying to go out alone. Then I don't have too much game and I ask pretty basic questions. Sometimes I don't even feel worth of the approach. | /r/seduction | 30/06/18 04:56 PM |
| 26 | Ever since I have been earning seduction, I have been a lot better with girls, but a lot more awkward with friends. Anyone have experience with this?lmao, that's how I feel. But I'm just so in the mindset I don't know what I'm doing. I also grew up awkward so, social skills in general are not the best for me. | /r/seduction | 17/06/18 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Seduction starting at 27? Is this possible? How do I meet girls my age? Anyone with similar experience?This is awesome advice. It really gives me hope. I mean, we have to try, and the success is there. This is gold. Thank you. | /r/seduction | 27/05/18 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Looking for other wings? Tried the sidebar, but links are from 3 years ago.Yeah. Same thing exactly. Found someone. Thank you. | /r/seduction | 01/05/18 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Looking for other wings? Tried the sidebar, but links are from 3 years ago.Someone to go out with. They have abilities like support, advice, someone to chat with and gain momentum, social status, they are also great when you introduce yourself to two girls and both have a girl. Or if girl. Girls can help build motivation and the girl makes it appear as the guy isn’t needy. Overall to have a good time any gender. | /r/seduction | 30/04/18 02:11 AM |
| 2 | I [m/27] have been seeing a girl [f/24] every weekend for a few weeks. She was chasing hard originally. But now never texts but always responds. What’s going on?I'm in a pretty small city in Ontario. It's actually not super easy to meet people here. So I actually have been trying to make it work a bit. aha. I guess I'll wait it out. | /r/seduction | 11/04/18 10:54 PM |
| 1 | I [m/27] have been seeing a girl [f/24] every weekend for a few weeks. She was chasing hard originally. But now never texts but always responds. What’s going on?Thank you, I hope it's like this. | /r/seduction | 11/04/18 09:56 PM |
| 2 | I [m/27] have been seeing a girl [f/24] every weekend for a few weeks. She was chasing hard originally. But now never texts but always responds. What’s going on?I told her to go on a "stereotypical date" with me last weekend. We went to a resturaunt, and then we went to a beach. Then we went home. No sex that night, but she gave me a bit of shit. "I can't fuck you so much." "Your's a sex addict" and I said "Well, you're pretty hott, but I won't make you do anything you don't want to." We had sex the next morning. It's been silly for the most part. I am unsure if I should ask her out as a relationship. as well as how to go about asking her out. So IDK. W… | /r/seduction | 11/04/18 09:55 PM |
| 1 | I [m/27] have been seeing a girl [f/24] every weekend for a few weeks. She was chasing hard originally. But now never texts but always responds. What’s going on?It was in a silly moment. and she said "Noooooo" In a silly voice, and then fronted about it later that day. Honestly she seemed to shrug it off like no big deal, but I wonder if she's being testy. | /r/seduction | 11/04/18 09:53 PM |
| 1 | I [m/27] have been seeing a girl [f/24] every weekend for a few weeks. She was chasing hard originally. But now never texts but always responds. What’s going on?I phoned her and explained that I wanted to give her good emotions. We were being super silly on the weekends and we were fooling around. I said randomly that I love her. But it was in a silly moment. Idk to be honest. I would be surprised if she even messages me for the rest of this week. | /r/seduction | 11/04/18 08:49 PM |
| 1 | If you approach a girl at a party and she is into you do you stick with her for a while or do you walk off after like 10 minutes and come back to pull later on?Break off and meet other girls Party is supposed to build. I have come back to get a pull and close. But honestly you could do anything. Either way. You really only need to meet one girl at the end of the night. So might as well get some extra numbers. | /r/seduction | 30/03/18 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Made two girls make out in a club. What next?lol. Okay. sorry. | /r/seduction | 19/03/18 04:25 AM |
| 1 | Made two girls make out in a club. What next?I meant what is the process. not the definition. How =/= What | /r/seduction | 19/03/18 04:19 AM |
| 1 | Made two girls make out in a club. What next?not very descriptive. | /r/seduction | 19/03/18 04:13 AM |
| 1 | Made two girls make out in a club. What next?How does this work? | /r/seduction | 19/03/18 04:13 AM |
| 2 | [27/m] I am in a new town with no bars. It's small but nice. I am planning on meeting girls at a mall, But I want to meet girls roughly my age. Any advice?:( I’m sure all sorts of people go. I honestly have no idea where else to meet girls. | /r/seduction | 11/03/18 08:41 PM |
| 2 | [27/m] I have been trying to meet girls for the last year and a half. I missed out on college and most of my life. I feel like I have missed any chance with a good girl. Any advice?Thank you. I guess I’m just in a weird area. I am planning on moving around a bit when I get more money. | /r/seduction | 09/03/18 05:17 PM |
| 1 | 7 places to meet women that aren't bars and clubsThis is great! I would go to a bar if I could. But I live in a city with no bars. | /r/seduction | 23/02/18 10:35 PM |
| 1 | What questions do you have about attracting women?She’s in a different department with their own staff. I find it hard to approach. | /r/seduction | 03/02/18 08:15 PM |
| 1 | What questions do you have about attracting women?I’m at a new job and I think a girl has a fancy towards me. We talked a lot at first because were both new but she works in a different department. How can I talk to this girl? How do I ask a girl out at work without making it awkward? | /r/seduction | 03/02/18 03:11 PM |
| 2 | I don't feel the desire to take action anymoreYou’re right. But I don’t mean really mean trying to change. But just get to know a girl a little bit more deeply. I would never try to convince someone to be someone else. I just mean to get to know someone longer to see the other qualities. | /r/seduction | 20/11/17 02:49 PM |
| 3 | I don't feel the desire to take action anymoreI have heard a lot of guys getting addicted to “game” because they just kind of find girls boring or what ever. You had a thrill of the hunt. And now it’s just easy. You are looking for a girlfriend that meets your standards I understand that. But how long do you get to know a girl for? Honestly, I think the best relationship I had was with a girl who I felt like it wasn’t worth it. We got pizza. And the amount she changed over 2 years, the amount of love and compassion that she put into the rel… | /r/seduction | 19/11/17 04:10 PM |
| 1 | I saw a guy at a bar did really good with two girls. Left with both of them. Any advice for getting to that level?I know what you mean in terms of no comparisons. I am just not getting the result I am looking for after trying for a few months. I keep getting distracted, or I pull out, I am unsure what to say.... I am not sure. | /r/seduction | 13/11/17 04:15 PM |
| 1 | I saw a guy at a bar did really good with two girls. Left with both of them. Any advice for getting to that level?Gold. I'm going to keep practicing. Thank you man. | /r/seduction | 13/11/17 07:11 AM |
| 2 | Guys that have dated women where there was a language barrier, how did that work out?I met a french girl last year. WHEW. I made so many stereotypes at her. I called her "My favorite baguette". She was REALLY into me. But we didn't talk much cause her English was weak, but just left more time for kissing, and weird small talk. But any little bit of french to tell her she was pretty or something funny I tried to slip in. | /r/seduction | 13/11/17 04:28 AM |
| 3 | I saw a guy at a bar did really good with two girls. Left with both of them. Any advice for getting to that level?Does it matter the topic? I am really nerdy. I have honestly been trying for months. but it's not like super good. I guess when I'm on the move I keep talking and then I lead her to where? How does it transition to a more intimate conversation? | /r/seduction | 13/11/17 04:26 AM |
| 4 | Where to find the quiet, low-key, non-party type girls in collegeThis. Talk to girls everywhere you go. But go to places where you would meet a girl that fits you. | /r/seduction | 05/11/17 08:19 AM |
| 8 | What to do when a girl "puts you on hold" in a set?I agree with this. It depends the situation. Sometimes they want to talk to their friend in case you can wait and try to get her attention again as a test. But sometimes she will tell her friends that she's with a cool guy and yo come back later. | /r/seduction | 16/06/17 10:36 PM |
| 1 | How to be more "alpha"?You can help. But if someone is making you do something they could do themselves (or if a pretty girl is making you do something) tell them to do it themselves. | /r/seduction | 10/06/17 07:27 PM |
| 2 | Is asking a girl's friend about her an okay thing to do?Not creepy. Ask in person. Be confident. | /r/seduction | 09/06/17 02:47 PM |
| 11 | I made my first approachNEVER STOP! KEEP GOING! | /r/seduction | 08/06/17 07:55 PM |
| 0 | Rate my opener? Also share some of your openers!I have no idea why this thread has any hate. I honestly think it sounds great. And the compliment also. Very good touch. I have gotten laid off of compliments. Personally for a while I just introduce myself and ask a few questions. And I do the old school pua move "I work at McDonald's" "I'm starting a new life on my own" "I ran away from home". It's a bit of a change in topic and a bit of a break in rapport. But I make jokes and such. It's not bad. | /r/seduction | 07/06/17 06:23 PM |
| 2 | Which approach for introvert & good active listenerBut what about daytime approach? I've done a lot of night stuff where people are expecting to get approached. | /r/seduction | 07/06/17 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Dancing Tips?You want to know if a girl is interested because you fear rejection. Stop fearing rejection and just ask. You literally never know. That or you can walk up in front of them and "hand of God" it. | /r/seduction | 06/06/17 03:20 PM |
| 6 | Girl I'm dating stopped replyingYeah. I'd chill. What ever happens happens. The less you care the better. | /r/seduction | 23/05/17 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Pictures with Ex on Tinder - Yes or No?Yes, It would. You don't even have to say it's your ex. | /r/seduction | 07/04/17 01:52 PM |
| 2 | 5 years, 100+ chicks later. Here's a distilled summary of what I've learned.This was really good. It gives me motivations to reach my own goals. I know what you mean by growing up from a poor family and basically becoming an engineer. This was great. Thank you. | /r/seduction | 18/02/17 02:38 PM |
| 1 | [texting] What did I do wrong?I mean, try to escalate her emotions by sending a small joke or a story. And make her want to see you. So she's more likely to go with what you're saying. | /r/seduction | 12/02/17 05:19 PM |
| 4 | [texting] What did I do wrong?It sounds fine. In fact it sounds like she's investing yourself. Just be chill. Part of being good with girls is patience. She'll message back if she likes you. Just remember buying temperature is important. So ask to hang out maybe every other message. | /r/seduction | 10/02/17 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Compliments & sexual topics. When are they too much?Do it as it flows out of you. Compliment when it's to be complimented. Sexual topics when you want to talk about it. Treat them with the same value as talking about your dog or something. | /r/seduction | 09/02/17 04:44 PM |
| 1 | What's the best thing to do the moment she says she's going to the bathroom?Just say "okay" and let her go to the damn bathroom. | /r/seduction | 26/01/17 02:11 AM |
| 4 | What's the best way to get a girl in class?Talk to her like normal. I'm sure she'll forward the conversation. Just be yourself. And relax. When class is over. Ask her what she's doing afterwards and try to forward it into an instant date. Or if she's busy walk with her a bit and ask for her phone number when she has to go. | /r/seduction | 26/01/17 02:06 AM |
| 1 | I don't know where to take the conversation after a successful tinder opener.This | /r/seduction | 20/01/17 04:08 AM |
| 5 | How to ask out a girl?When you see her. Go up to her. Tell her you think she's cool and that your going to get pizza after school if she wants to come. I'm telling you I know how it is in high school. You may be nervous. But seriously take a deep breath. Think of nothing. And just do it. Seriously. This is the BEST time to start practicing. And get over any fear. Even if she says no. Just tell her it's okay. And that maybe another time. It's not a big deal. Honestly no one is going to remember when you're 23. I'm 26 … | /r/seduction | 06/01/17 05:37 AM |
| 1 | Why do I get blown off every fucking time?It's hard to say. Maybe you are pushing hard for it? Or maybe you just weren't interesting enough. How do the texts go? I'm currently trying just making self amusing conversation. And then telling her where I'm going and if she's close by that she can come. But at the end of the day. Maybe she's. It invested. Or a dick. Or she lost the drive. It's hard to say the cause and effect. | /r/seduction | 27/12/16 03:57 PM |
| 2 | Could somebody please clarify/explain "putting girls on pedestals"?Ever feel nervous to talk to a girl? That's pedestal talk. You should have no fear because she is just another person. (Like many guys or girls there are dicks out there though) | /r/seduction | 27/12/16 03:51 PM |
| 1 | How to recover after showing the neediness?It's probably better not to show it in the first place. You can only be how you are. If she likes you, she'll let you get away with it. If she doesn't like you, oh well. Not every girl is gonna like you. Sometimes neediness is good depending how it's shown (my long term relationships were like "you can't leave, you're my bitch". Idk I've said it before) Trail and error my friend. | /r/seduction | 27/12/16 03:43 PM |
| 7 | Why do I get blown off every fucking time?You got flaked. Meh. It happens. Sometimes any one of my friends asks me to hang out. Then a few hours later I want to stay inside and I make up some excuse. It's just the heat of the moment it sounds good. Best thing you can do is to be cool. Relaxed. You're a busy person. There is a lot of other things you can do. If you see her in person(like how you got her number) then you can talk about it. If she doesn't respond at all. Oh well. It's just a girl at the end of the day. Plenty of them. | /r/seduction | 27/12/16 03:39 PM |
| 2 | Getting over my awkward sentence structure when talking?Haha. Yeah, I technically am pretty good at excel. But it's sometimes said two times in a row. And then I kind of look around awkwardly. Haha. I don't know. | /r/seduction | 23/11/16 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Getting over my awkward sentence structure when talking?Thank god. I mean, it doesn't happen all of the time. And I feel like if I could talk to some of these girls clearer I think our conversations would go better. But I usually just walk away being like "What the fuck did I just say?" | /r/seduction | 23/11/16 08:12 PM |
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