Seduction starting at 27? Is this possible? How do I meet girls my age? Anyone with similar experience?

b0100010 · 2018-05-27T03:21:57+00:00

I'm starting to do it at 34, so I hope you'll be fine. It's working out okay for me so far, been on more dates in the last 3 months than the previous 3 years so clearly somethings working.

Of course go to clubs unless, of course, you don't like clubs or you don't want the types of girls who go to clubs, then don't go to clubs.

Try and find hobbies and groups that you enjoy doing as your primary priority, and that would also attract girls as a secondary priority. For example, I really enjoy my ballroom dancing, cancer research volunteer work, and surfing. All three of those are non-club ways of meeting girls and I really enjoy them.

Also, you shouldn't be relying entirely on social activities and groups for meeting girls, you need to get comfortable cold-approaching women and striking up conversations with women you find attractive while not knowing anything about them. This is a huge way of boosting your confidence and you can get some really good results from it, I've gotten multiple dates from a woman that I approached cold. This also helps you with your warm approaches in your social groups, as the skills you develop approaching cold give you the confidence of going and talking to the pretty girls in your social group.

Make sure that you're also working on improving yourself, your career, your social skills, your mental health, your attitudes towards sex and relationships, and everything else that's considered "inner game." That plays a huge role in how successful you are, and the quality of girls that you get. I know for myself, I had to go to therapy to work through issues from childhood which distorted a lot of my understanding of how men and women interact. I'm also changing careers and just finishing up university. It's taken a lot of work and I've still got a lot more to do, but I really feel like I'm making a lot of progress to becoming a whole man.

You've got plenty of time, so don't feel too bad about missing out on the early 20s stuff. You'll be fine

wing05 · 2018-05-27T03:22:39+00:00

I had that fear as well, even worse I cant stand night clubs and never really had a social life where I can meet women. Thought I'm doomed to just stumble upon whatever relationship comes my way and I won't have any say in it.

But after finding out about daygame, my outlook has changed. I feel like it's a much better fit for my personality and I'm starting to see some success in terms of a dating life, but a crazy amount of improvement as a person. I feel like a completely different person compared to 2 years ago...my confidence, swagger and just the way I view interactions with everyone has improved. I started when I was 28 closing in on 29.

So go find out what works for you...night, day, direct, indirect...find one that fits you as a person and go for it, girls are everywhere, they occupy the same space as you do at any given time. At 27, you're just getting to your best times for dating...remember men's value goes higher as we age unlike a women's. Good luck...

WIA20XX · 2018-05-27T03:27:25+00:00

All the guys in VIP are late 20's to early 40's.

If you have a place to yourself, car, and enough time to deal with club chicks - it's the perfect age.

Title	Seduction starting at 27? Is this possible? How do I meet girls my age? Anyone with similar experience?
Author	Ptolemy222
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Date	May 27, 2018 2:45 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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