How do you set the premise/frame that YOU are the cookie/treat at the end of the meal when, as a man, YOU are the one doing the approaching/establishing premise???

Looking at it in terms of pure nature, literally females have the high ground they're the ones being competed for not the other way around and this is astonishingly obvious the more attractive any female in any species is to any given male.

So yeah, how does one establish the premise and/or frame that the girl has to be the one to win you over when females do not ever approach men or initiate interest on a romantic/sexual level.

I'm sure the guy with 10/10 genetics, taking several stacks, blessed financially probably doesn't have any qualms to make about the argument I'm proposing but how many of us here fit into that category?

Any insights/tips/advice would be highly appreciated. Thanks guys ✌🏼☮️🙏🏼