Apparently my recent working out is starting to pay off. Last night I was at a club with my friends, having loads of fun when a 7/10 starts to give me the biggest smile and "falling accidentally" onto me and brushing herself against me (the place was pretty packed at that point). Not my type of girl and perhaps a year or two older than me, but really hot. Perfect for casual sex. I smile back and continue dancing with my friends but she doesn't give up.

I leave the group and she stops me, asking if I'm leaving. I wanted to say "yes, and I'll take you with me". But my friends were there... I just couldn't leave with a woman without saying anything to my friends. They would have seen me, because we would have had to walk through the bar side to which everyone has a clear view.

I just said "yeah I am", but I don't think she heard what I said. She replied "I hope I didn't cause you a trauma". I said "not at all" and smiled. Then she said that she's leaving and off she went.

I think I understand the type of thinking why women don't want to seem like sluts. As a guy I want to avoid that, too. After all, in the end I'm looking for a relationship, although I would really love some casual sex, too.

How do you deal with that? I hate going into clubs alone because my friends are really what gets me into the party mood.