Ok so I have a quick thought I would like to relay. Its not so much into the art of seduction but it comes about when I'm going out to dances.

I like to think of myself as controlled and try to respect the women I am dealing with (at the beginning of every party I go to), I keep thinking of them as a person, so when I come to try and dance with them, fucking 9 out of the 10 times that I go to a pretty woman and ASK her to dance she most likely will so no, I almost expect. After about 2-4 no's I switch my style, instead of asking the women to dance, I just grab them and start dancing with them, and this type of style works almost 90% of the time!

I'm not saying i don't like that it is so, but I would like to know if the art of seduction includes this into account. Also I would like to know, if you happen to know, why women like it better to just tell them what to do than ask them to do it.