Suits. Wear them. One night I convinced my friends and I to go out dressed our best. I wore a suit. Holy. Fucking. Shit. I got smiles and compliments from girls all night. Also buy a bow tie, not a clip on, and learn to tie this bow tie. For one, you'll get a lot of compliments on it, it's a great conversation starter, and when you're talking to a girl you can give her a lesson on tying a bow tie which opens up all sorts of awesome kino action. And it's worth mentioning that nothing, and I mean absolutely nothing, will boost a mans confidence like wearing a suit. Make sure it's tailored to you as well gentlemen.   Also, if you're having problems getting the nerve to sarge solo, next time you're out with a group of friends, go AWOL to another bar nearby for an hour or two. That way you technically are out solo but you've got a fallback. It's hard to put into words but when I do that, I don't feel like I'm flying solo even though I am. So it makes it way easier when I do sarge solo. All of my best nights have been nights when I go AWOL and get into all sorts of awesome adventures with people I just met. Don't worry about being by yourself, because guess what? You're not! Go make new friends and get into adventures! That leads me to my next thought.   Have adventures. I always ask myself "What makes for the better story?" Sarging is a fucking adventure. Sarging is fun. Sarging is exhilarating! So, would standing in the corner and not talking to anyone be fun to write a field report about? How about walking into that bar, talking to everyone there, dancing with cute girls, and romping around late night, half drunk to awesome spots in your city? Would that be fun to write about? Go forth and make the most amazing field report of your life, then come back and rub it in our faces!   Being a pick up artist is not about being a pick up artist. Seduction is not about seducing anyone. Seduction, game, pick up, whatever you call it, is all about being amazing and awesome.  Number closing, K closing, F closing, etc. are all just side effects of good game.  That's what I have for now, hope it helps. Who knows, my outlook could change, but this is how I see things at the moment.