These are just random things I have thought of that are pretty much miscellaneous tips, but I thought I would share them. I will be assuming the reader is past his twenties and is financially secure (although not all tips revolve around money). Again, these are SMALL tips to set the mood or just improve things, these in itself will not get you laid, it is in addition to your game.

  • If you live in a high-rise and have a date coming back to your place after, make sure to close your blinds before leaving. Why? Because when you walk her into your place, you should open up the blinds, presenting the town (view) to her. You could leave them open so you don't have to do this, but this creates more of a "WOW" factor, revealing something. If she is just coming over for anything other than fuckbuddy sex (you're at the point you don't need to impress) you should have the blinds open before she gets there. This shows you enjoy the view, why would you have them closed while you're at home?

  • Do not get a girl to meet you at your place for drinks/whatever before a date. Your living area is a closer within itself, it is the last thing a girl has to 'approve'. If you have her over before the date, there's not as much of a reason for her to come by after the date, unless the sex is obvious. She has already seen your place, she doesn't need to see it again unless you have something to offer her.

  • Entertaining. Honestly, if you're a good conversationalist, all you really need to have is an okay bottle of wine (preferably white, but that's just me) and some kind of little cutesy snack (nuts, cheese, seeds). Do not turn on the TV, you're more interesting than that. Sit around not necessarily a kitchen table, but a smaller table focused around socializing. Entertain her with you, not with something else. Do not get shitty snacks. I repeat, do not get shitty snacks. If you're honestly strapped for cash, just get premium peanuts and don't eat them if you don't have someone over, it's like $5 for a package.

  • Only keep one pillow on your bed. This forces socialization within the sheets if sex isn't on lock yet and she just wants to spend the night. One pillow means either you have to fight over it or share it. If she goes straight for the share, you're in, if she wants to fight over it, play fight and flirt until you're in.

  • Do NOT walk in front (as in, a step or two ahead, where your bodies are diagonal to eachother) and do NOT walk in back. Some guys like to argue that walking in front shows dominance, yes, it does, in situations in which you cannot stand side by side. If you're squeezing through a crowd, yes, you need to be in front. But, on sidewalks and walkways, you should stand beside her, with her, you're showing her off, she's hot shit and you're even hotter shit, you want everyone to see how fucking awesome you two are together. If you stay disconnected with her as far as walking goes, you aren't very in harmony. How can you build a bond with someone without harmony? Lots of guys want to show too much male dominance or awesomeness, which in the long run, may end up making the girl feel inadequate (been there, done that).

  • Drink lightly but socially, do not take drugs, do not smoke cigarettes. For those that do smoke I have to plug my business. There is nothing wrong with doing drugs with a date if you have known each other a while, but if you're trying to impress a high-quality woman, the chances that she is even interested in smoking weed with you or taking shrooms with you are pretty low. You're classy, you make the right decisions in when to indulge (if you do at all).

  • When just meeting a girl, you should talk about yourself and her around 60:40. After knowing her a couple of hours, take it back to around 40:60. No girl likes to hear a guy talk about himself for hours on end.

  • In a living area, less is more. Go for quality, not quantity. Do not have a big screen and then plastic chairs. You need to make sure your living area matches in that sense. Upgrade everything slowly, don't tilt your purchases in such a way, it looks trashy. The exception to this is, if you have a hobby. For example, if you collect records, its fine to have an enormous amount of records and then par everything else, you love your hobby and so you make sacrifices. Just make sure everything is at least acceptable. And please keep your carpet clean.