So, while i'm putting in conscious effort to be polite & helpful around office colleagues(note: this is genuine and no pretend), not a single girl shows any interest. And there is this other dude (good guy) goes just about his business, super silent, decent looks and girls flock at him, take him out for breaks. I try and look decent on a daily basis and there is no fruit for my labour and this guy gets served on silver platter. What is the fuck is this and why the fuck is it like that? Also I try to not come across as desperate or needy and I still fail all the same.