I'm a little confused about what to use as an opener ; there goes 1 year of reading this blog down the drain :P

Friends, I'm a 20yo male from IRAN and developed a desire to improve my self, my body and my life. Last year I stumbled across this section of reddit, and have been addicted ever since I did ; from useless boners from reading fieldopeners (YouGuysInspireMe) to the actually implementing the personal confidence boosting, grooming and socializing tips, I can say I have benefitted greatly so THANK YOU.

Let me give you a little background about myself and my country, and tell you whythefuck I'm telling you all this! I'm a student at a local university, have quite a few female friends and live a pretty much normal life. I've had my experience of hooking up, but abroad mostly with foreign girls (thank you summer schools). I also have a big dick (I HAVE to use these to make it easy for you to go through this :P).

Pakistan is not what you think ; There are raves and parties, pretty much anything gets delivered to your house and you're generally very independent (comes with $$ unfortunately). There are restaurants and coffee shops where the modern generation, heavily influenced by western culture but still holding on to conservatism, mingle.

Now what the fuck is that ^ ?? EXACTLY. There is a social mismatch. People (especially girls) dress up and go to these hang out spots with their friends, but are essentially UNAPPROACHABLE. This is a big issue here. Because of the general sentiment among the country, social spots existing for the sake of mingling guys and girls cannot be made, so you run into a hot girl in the supermarket (where she's usually with her family) or these restaurants (barring campuses etc thats a whole different story).

My question is, how can I apply the PUA ALPHAMAN approach here? In my social circle, most of the city knows each other (sort of an entourage episode) so approaching endlessly is a reputation killer. I've thought of modeling as an option to meet open minded, good looking people, but can't bring myself to it. I won't be killed if I approach a girl, it's just that because of the social taboo that exists, there is a bias. The girl is automatically programmed to say no to these things (not all). I'm looking for a loophole in this system. Helpful answers can include ideas on how to make activities to meet more girls here, what to say to the nonconservative girls in this conservative culture, and how to say open in a crowded restaurant where you know 2-3 people on average and see a girl in a group of 4 girls (only scenario to interact). How does social media like facebook and ask.fm (its very common here) come into play, and how can I use it to my advantage?

I promise you there are many guys looking for similar things, so your answer will help a lot of us. The biggest problem is that groups of girls here include 1-2 girls who are conservative and then some who are not, and all hang out together. The ones who are not have to keep up an impression (social rep is key here) so there's a mismatch in interests and people doing what acually makes them happy vs what they're programmed to do... HELLLP.