Recommend a guru/dating coach for INFP?

Garconanokin · 2016-02-28T08:34:38+00:00

First (and free), you may want to look into how valid and reliable the MBTI really is since you've pigeon-holed yourself so much with it.

Ownfir · 2016-02-28T11:23:56+00:00

I'm an INFP. I followed seduction and pickup pretty heavily last year, put it in to practice for the better part of 8 months before I finally decided to be honest with myself and evaluate what I personally wanted. Seduction is great if that's what you're after in your life.

You may be like many here that just want to explore and have fun. I always felt like I was lying to myself and presenting a fake image to women of who I was. Many don't experience this, however I did. I think my personality makes it hard for me to maintain the aloof, push/pull dynamic that pickup calls for. I would so much rather just spend hours talking with a girl about intimate details and could care less if I escalated to sex. This made pickup hard because I just get tired of the constant shallow, witty remarks and pseudo-confidence.

I don't think my experience applies to everyone though. I was "successful" in my game and was able to easily read women (I feel that INFPs are more susceptible to emotional cues and this can give us a leg up) however I never really felt "better" or more satisfied.

I'm single again and am really enjoying it, so I'm thinking of trying pickup again now that my mindset is a little more abundant than it was before.

Title	Recommend a guru/dating coach for INFP?
Author	1111syzygy1111
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Comments	2
Date	February 28, 2016 5:04 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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