Rejected after first date?

erwinberg88 · 2018-09-05T11:11:46+00:00

Maybe there's some other guy around who she is also dating with. Just want to test you and hold her options open.

LingeringGnome · 2018-09-05T22:31:11+00:00

Date itself went well, we had a good time

If she had a good time, she'd want to see you again quickly. Be careful not to project your feelings onto hers in seduction, or even in LTR's.

I messaged her 1 hour after the date, to thank her for the evening.

Needy and ass-kissey. You don't need to thank a woman for a date, LOL. Let her wonder about you a bit. Texting her an hour after the date is clingy. Let her breathe.

Next day I invited her to go with me to the movies on thursday.

Needy and clingy again. Let the date breathe.

She told she is busy, she has to prepare herself to the trip, which will be on Friday. No mention of: "maybe next week" or sth.

She smells neediness. Don't text her again for two weeks. Let her text you.

A_solo_tripper · 2018-09-06T02:15:24+00:00

Did you try escalating with her after the kiss?

Text her in a few weeks. Then, move on. Rejection is good. You don't have to spend more time and energy on her. On to the next one.

ocist1121 · 2018-09-05T21:32:21+00:00

Take it slow man, things went well. Don’t throw it away by being desperate. Unfortunately this is how she probably interprets it.

Title	Rejected after first date?
Author	englishdarasa
Upvotes	0
Comments	4
Date	September 5, 2018 11:10 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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