For instance, my girlfriend tells me "but you never text mee, why am I always the one starting text conversations".

I don't text her because I don't care that much. I had a phase where I did listen to what she asked - I texted her more, I would Skype her more. But in doing so, I felt like I was losing control and her attraction. Paradoxically, the more I listened to what she asked, the less she was into me.

Should I just keep not texting her, and only texting her whenever I feel like it?