Resources and advice to make me the most attractive guy I can be? Anyone able to tell me their story on how they have achieved this?

OrzhovPalatine · 2020-10-12T16:07:44+00:00

Keep in mind you can read as much as you like but in order to get good at this game you need to actually get into the field and experiment. Which yes includes alot of rejection and pain.

When I started I read "The Game" by Neil Strauss because he basically had what I wanted in the short term. Read other things like "Way of the Superior Man" and "Models" but reading can only help you theorize.

I learned everything in field by bumbling into clubs, coffee shops, bookstores, etc etc. You will learn everything from just testing in field. This is also the hardest part because you will get alot of "fuck yous" and just have to power through it.

If you can survive and self moviate yourself through the field testing you will eventually develop your own technique that works for you.

TheDevilPutD · 2020-10-21T10:07:23+00:00

Sure, I will tell you how I did it. I decoupled my feelings of self confidence and self worth from external factors, like looks, wealth, social status, job, etc. Most people rely on these things to create a sense of identity otherwise they have to face how empty their lives are.

What I discovered under the surface is a pretty cool ass dude who started respecting himself much more (more on that later). That's what girls mean when they tell you "Just be yourself". They are tired of guys faking their asses off to impress them and want a guy who is okay with himself.

See, every guy wants to be James Bond, but James Bond doesn't want to be anyone else. Why? Cause ultimate confidence is when you are okay with yourself. That's what normal guys who get laid do. They are okay.

I accomplished this by challenging myself and facing my fears. I went out to clubs and bars at night and stayed up the whole night. I faced every insecurity you may have and came out on the other end okay. When I undertook this challenge to myself I wanted to test my strength and when I finished it, I started respecting myself way more. The key is to set the challenge and commit to completing it to the end. That's how you earn your own respect.

The other key thing I did, was lower my tolerance levels for BS and disrespect. You are surrounded by people who want to suck you into their world and dominate you. From people on the street who expect you to make eye contact and acknowledge them, to the bouncer at a club who tries to intimidate you while checking your ID, to the hot girl who is there to get attention and is acting stuck up and bitchy and expects that everyone to kiss her ass. When you start noticing these subtle ways that people try to dominate you, you can become empowered to ignore them and not ask for their permission.

This is what makes you super powerful and then women come easy. Heck some will even approach you, not in the traditional way of coming up to you, but they will look at you, smile, hover around you at the bar, etc., just so you can notice them and start talking to them.

Title	Resources and advice to make me the most attractive guy I can be? Anyone able to tell me their story on how they have achieved this?
Author	Dr_Alexworld
Upvotes	3
Comments	3
Date	October 12, 2020 2:24 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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