Hello all,

I'm a long-time creeper, and new poster here. Let's get right to the point: Where do you go, aside from here, to discuss and learn seduction/pickup/game? Two of my favourite resources (Chateau Heartiste and Sedfast, formerly known as mASF) are now kaput.

mASF was my introduction, survey course and extended study into game. I credit that forum (and some of its more prolific insights found in the posts of users like Silvertree, Ijjjjji and Teevs) as the literal reason I lost my virginity in my early twenties. It hurts to see them go, because what they taught was valuable - and it was free.

At the time of writing this, I understand Heartiste, apparently, is back online. However, there has been nothing posted at its new address since May.

Where do you go to talk game?

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Part 2. How do you deal with needy women?
I won't bore you with the technical details. I matched someone on Tinder who is chubby. I've fucked her until she got those Exorcist-eyes they get when you pinch the clit between your teeth; numerous times. That blossomed after the first three orgasms I gave her, into an FWB-arrangement, with her coming over or me going to her place about once a week. We'd do our business sometimes shoot the shit and part ways. For me, facing a prospective career change, being generally pretty transient, that was a scintillating arrangement.

Up to this point (throughout the summer) it was casual. "No presh," as the youngsters like to say. When she mused about hanging out more often I subtly pumped the breaks and she took the hint.

Now, she's not taking that hint anymore. She's blowing up my phone, putting far more pressure on me to spend more time with her (I'm at the point where I'm exaggerating how busy I am to keep her away), and I'm worried this is a symptom of the impulse toward monogamy many women exhibit during the dreaded "cuffing season." (Autumn)

Has anyone else ever been in a situation like this? If so, at what point did you find yourself needing to use a firmer "no?" How do you deal with women who are getting greedy and demanding more of your time? What is your line in the sand?