Sorry if this has been posted a million times, but I couldn't find a comprehensive list when I searched.

Long story short, I had one long relationship from 16-22 that was the only girl I was ever with during that time. When we broke up, I had zero idea what I was doing, but I discovered the seduction community and worked on myself for years until I became a full on player between 24-28. I was with 100+ women during this time and who even knows the amount that I made out with or got their number. But at 28 I started dating my best friend. At first it was great, but after a while, we began to bicker about how much she drank. Not because I judged her, but because of all the stress, lost time, and bullshit I had to deal with because of how it affected me as her partner. There's a big difference between saying "hey I'm getting drinks with my girls tonight. I'll text you later or in the morning" vs "hey let's do dinner tonight at 8! See you then.........but then 8,9,10,11 rolls around and you haven't heard from her and it ends up that she was doing blow at some male coworkers house until 5am". I finally got fed up and we started to resent each other. This is where my swag died. I got depressed, she talked a lot of shit about me and my character, I got anxious because of how toxic and abusive she would get, I got chubby, and just generally had my self esteem drop to high school level lows. And I definitely stayed in the relationship too long because I loved her and because we had the prior friendship to fall back on. But once I got sober and realized how bad she was, it was an easy decision to walk away and focus on bettering myself and not deal with someone else's substance abuse and emotional problems.

But now that I'm single...I'm a mess. I've been sleeping with new women, but every time it's someone that I basically have to kick out in the morning. And when I do meet someone, I'm generally so awkward that I get numbers and become friends, but can't seem to close on anyone I'm really attracted to. My mojo is gone Austin powers style.

I've been losing weight, staying sober, and going out to more social gatherings to meet people. Just generally bettering myself after the first post break up month where I just got shitfaced every night and jerked off. But now I'm ready to take it to the next level. I need all of the post break up anecdotal advice, videos, books, etc., that is going to get me out of my rut and back into the game. Because it's been a while and I'm rusty.

Thanks!